Best 40th birthday gift ideas for women that she'll adore for years to come

Our edit of 40th birthday gift ideas for women has ideas for every lady in your life

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The best 40th birthday gift ideas  celebrate what this exciting decade has ahead, from tools to help the recipient reach their goals to investment pieces that will last for years to come. And for those people who have everything? We've rounded up the best experience gifts to make memories that they'll treasure forever. 

Milestone birthdays deserve something special - in fact, many of these ideas could also work if you're looking for the best 50th birthday gifts or the best 60th birthday gifts, too - but it doesn't have to cost the earth. Our list includes a variety of price points, to cater for all budgets. 

We've also consulted the experts for gift-buying advice, to help you chose gifts that are memorable, useful and touching - as well as what to chose for anyone who's tough to buy for.

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What makes a memorable 40th birthday gift?

Francesca Pittaway, curator at Not on the High Street (opens in new tab), knows how hard it can be to find the perfect present. Especially if you want it to be unique.

"Choosing something memorable can feel really daunting, especially if you are time poor!" she says. "We often want to express to recipients how much they mean to us through a gift and when someone means a great deal to you, you might feel pressure to get it spot on. If someone means a lot to you, keeping them and why you love them front of mind when choosing something means you can’t go wrong."

It might sound cliche, but often the most memorable presents involve making memories! Book a weekend away, go for a fancy dinner or even plan a surprise. You'll both never forget sharing quality time together doing something special.

Natalie Joliffe, co-owner of online luxury gifting retailer Lime Tree London (opens in new tab), explains, "As a 40 year old myself I know which gifts I like to receive! People always appreciate those especially luxury items that they wouldn’t necessarily go out and buy themselves, such as candles or flowers (real or artificial) - in particular British sourced, sustainably produced, handmade and vegan make a lovely gift and any product where the retailer donates a portion to charity is special too. 

A memorable gift is one that someone has put genuine thought into..someone who knows you well and has taken the time to find something they know you will love! For example, my husband bought me a hamper of goodies from Space NK for one of my 40th gifts, as he knows I spend too much on others and not enough on myself."

What do you get someone who doesn't want anything for their birthday?

Finding the perfect gift to mark a milestone birthday is even harder if your recipient is insistent they don't want anything! 

"In this minimalist world, it's experiences that count. For friends, a night out drinking cocktails might be best,"  Joliffe continued. "While for husbands and partners, the promise of a swish dinner or experience that the whole family can enjoy together will go down well." Take a look at our list of the best hobbies for women for some more ideas. 

Is there a traditional gift for a 40th birthday?

For any milestone birthday, jewelry is a safe and classic choice, as Joliffe explains. "Jewelry is the most traditional gift for a women's 40th - something you can wear still for years to come and hand down to future generations."

A personalized gift is also a great choice to mark a 40th birthday. "You can personalize pretty much anything if you're organized and order online," Joliffe continued. "Think personalized candles, throws, kitchen and homeware products as a start - it shows that thought has gone into the gift (and it's not last minute!)"

Aleesha Badkar
Aleesha Badkar

Aleesha is a digital shopping writer at woman&home—so whether you're looking for beauty, fashion, health or home buys, she knows what the best buys are at any moment. She earned an MA in Magazine Journalism from City, University of London in 2017 and has since worked with a number of brands including Women's Health, Stylist and Goodto. A year on the w&h news team gained her invaluable insight into where to get the best lifestyle releases first—as well as an AOP awards nomination.

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