There’s an understandable pressure that comes with deciding what to wear for engagement photos. Images you'll treasure forever, there's a lot of thought that goes into the perfect look.
When it comes to bridal style, there are certain traditions and conventions that most brides adhere to for the big day, whether its the best bridal shoes or stylish rehearsal dinner dresses. However, when it comes to what to wear for engagement photos, the same sartorial rules need not apply.
While your wedding day photos are likely to be much more formal, for engagement photos, you have the opportunity to create beautiful images that are more relaxed and a little more 'you'. There might also be the opportunity for outfit changes, so plan in advance with your photographer how many looks and the vibe you would like to get from the day and then you can start planning accordingly.
What to wear for engagement photos according to a style expert
If the idea of engagement photos is new to you, it's essentially a pre-wedding shoot. Many couples use the imagery for 'Save the Date' cards or for other pieces of wedding stationery. They're a great way of banishing pre-wedding jitters if you're nervous about being in front of the camera.
“Couples who book engagement shoots with me tend to either not enjoy being photographed or are feeling very anxious about the part of their wedding day that involves portraits,” explains professional wedding photographer Charlotte Kitchenside of Three Flowers Photography. “They want to know exactly what to expect on the big day and have a lovely gallery of photos to keep.”
Before deciding what to wear for engagement photos, you need to establish the location and how the weather will impact this.
“Where I shoot depends a lot on the couple but often they’ll ask me for recommendations,” says Charlotte. “I suggest favorite walks, perhaps the proposal location or any places that are meaningful to them. For more nervous couples, I’d suggest a country park or a river walk where we’re not too in view of the public - I find I tend to shoot more engagement sessions in rural locations because of this factor.” Once you know the location for your engagement photos and the time of year, you can start putting an outfit together.
1. What to wear for engagement photos in the city
What you need…
- Leather jacket
- Printed midi skirt
- Trainers
As engagement photos tend to be very whimsical, shooting with the backdrop of a busy city really adds an edge. “(In London), Shoreditch is quite popular, as it’s super vibrant with lots of cool graffiti to use as backdrops” says Charlotte. If you need to stand out against the grey of the sidewalks, look to bright color clothes to ensure you're the center of attention. It could be as simple as a patterned skirt or a bold handbag. Shrug off any workwear associations by shunning tailoring in favor of laid-back silhouettes complete with a pair of the best white trainers.
A styling tip… For fall outfit ideas for this theme, look at robing your best leather jacket over your shoulders for a stylish, but weather-appropriate look.
Fashion editor’s picks…
RRP: $499 / £299 | No one does leather jackets quite like All Saints, and the Dalby All Saints leather jacket is one of its best-sellers. Crafted from buttery lambs leather, it has a classic silhouette, ignoring trends in favor of timeless hardware.
RRP: $199 / £99 | Putting a modern spin on classic leopard print, this pattern is a vibrant mix of black, grey, and fluorescent green. Ruching and a split at the side seam add extra interest to the shape. Team with the matching top or a simple t-shirt.
RRP: $79.99 / £90 | Running shoes might have advanced over the years, but New Balance’s classic 1970s shape has endured. The heritage design will add retro cool to any outfit, especially in this somewhat unexpected pink and green colorway.
2. What to wear for engagement photos for casual
What you need…
- A slogan sweatshirt
- Light wash jeans
- Sleek trainers
Not into formal wear? If you feel most comfortable in your best leggings or jeans, and a t-shirt or sweatshirt then that's the side of your personality you should let shine. Smart casual outfit ideas are great for ensuring you'll feel at ease at your engagement shoot, which in the long run will make for better photos. From nailing how to style baggy jeans, for a directional feel or adding extra polish by learning how to style flared jeans, choose the silhouette that's right for you.
With an almost sports luxe finish, team laidback denim with loose-fitting, oversized tops. You can always go for a French tuck (tucked at the front only) to avoid overwhelming your frame. As for footwear, opt for comfortable flats. A ballet pump will feel a little dressier, while a box-fresh white trainer will look crisp and cool.
A styling tip… The fashion trends 2023 are once again championing sports luxe as a key look and slogan tops will remain key to this trend. A great way to make a statement, look for designs that reflect the mood of the shoot eg. 'Love' or a place you’ve traveled to together.
Fashion editor’s picks…
RRP: $43.99 / £25 | For a playful way to make a statement, you can’t beat a colorful slogan sweatshirt. This one has been carefully crafted from the softest cotton for maximum comfort.
RRP: $60 / £55 | Made from rigid denim, these jeans will hold their shape. The flattering wide-leg works well with all footwear, from trainers to stompy boots. Lighter washes offer a casual feel.
RRP: $280 / £245 | Extra height without the best designer heels, a platform trainer is a great compromise. A signature style for Russell & Bromley, we love the pared-back design for effortless elegance.
3. What to wear for engagement photos At the beach
What you need…
- Floaty summer dress
- Straw bag
- Gold jewelry
The image of strolling hand-in-hand along the beach is the very picture of romance, so what better place to capture your engagement photos than by the ocean? Lean into the theme by dressing in lightweight clothing, these pictures will work particularly well if you plan to use them for stationery for a summer nuptials too.
For the ideal beach-ready look, opt for the best summer dresses preferably with fuller skirts, to allow for gentle movement in the breeze, which will translate beautifully in the pictures. The background of the sea is pretty neutral, so you can choose any color you like. Top with a linen shirt or cropped, chunky knit jumper for an extra layer, leaning on the Coastal Grandmother trend for inspiration if needed. Going barefoot will bring a bohemian feel to the photos, so embrace the sandy toes, as this enhances the happy and carefree feel of beach engagement pictures.
A styling tip… A floral headband or floppy hat might feel like the perfect beach accessory, but make sure you get some photos without one too. Make sure to take the photos without the hat first, in case the headpiece flattens your hair.
Fashion editor’s picks…
RRP: $90 / £79 | One of the best pink dresses, nothing says summer quite like broderie Anglaise. The detailing makes all the difference to this cute frock, giving it a romantic feel. Choose from hot pink or classic white, both of which can be worn post shoot.
RRP: $225 / £170 | Take advantage of the brand’s personalization option and get your new initials embossed on the front. It's a cute nod to your partner and you’ll max out your cost-per-wear by taking it on your future honeymoon too.
RRP: $22 / £20 | A pair of chunky gold hoops offer a subtle style statement, and these are a purse-friendly way to invest. You could also opt for a pair of earrings gifted to you by your partner during your relationship to highlight a sweet momento.
4. What to wear for engagement photos outdoors
What you need…
- Padded jacket
- Leggings
- Chunky boots
When it comes to what to wear for engagement photos in the great outdoors, make sure to look the part and dress appropriately. Use the Princess of Wales, Kate Middleton, as your style inspiration for this look and think padded coats, wax Barbour-style jackets, form-fitting leggings or trousers, and knee-high boots. The contrast of the layered top half with the form-fitting bottom half will make your legs look longer too. A great ensemble for an outdoorsy couple, it will help to bring your passion into the pictures too. Khaki greens, black and beige are the shades to gravitate towards here, and if you do want to add a print into the mix, make it check or plaid.
A styling tip… Invest in a pair of this season’s chunky, track-soled boots, such as the best Chelsea boots with a lug sole for a nod to the fall winter shoe trends 2022.
Fashion editor’s picks…
RRP: $59.99 / £39.99 | This lightweight layering piece will more than earn its keep in your capsule wardrobe. We love the rounded edges and wiggle stitch detail, giving this jacket an on-trend twist. Choose from two classic colors: light green or black.
RRP: $54 / £32 | Choosing faux leather over cotton or lycra is an easy way to elevate your leggings outfits. This pair are not too shiny, or too matte, to us they're just right. The choice of short, regular, and long lengths means you’re sure to find a spot-on fit too.
RRP: $219 / £129 | One of the best winter boots styles, give a nod to this season's love of the '90s with a chunky soled pair. The pull tabs as well as the relaxed fit make these great for long walks. Sitting around mid-calf, they're a good option for all heights.
5. What to wear for engagement photos in the fall
What you need…
- Jumper dress
- Heeled boots
- Printed scarf
The change in nature’s colors makes fall a gorgeous time to capture your engagement photos. Take your cues for what to wear for engagement photos in the fall from your surroundings and choose a neutral palette of brown and beige topped with accents of burnt orange, russet red, and deep burgundy.
The weather can be hit-and-miss in fall, so layers are a smart choice. Think a short-sleeve dress with long winter boots or a crisp white shirt, chinos, and a pump or loafer. You might want to bring your best sunglasses too, as those crisp fall mornings and hazy evenings (some of the best times for photos is golden hour) can be surprisingly sunny.
A styling tip… Mixing both tones and textures in your outfit will create a premium feel. Look to fall/winter fabrics such as wool, faux fur and leather for a luxe mix.
Fashion editor’s picks…
RRP: $99.99 / £59.99 | The open knit means this dress is just the right amount of cozy for fall days before the big chill sets in. The burnt orange shade is ideal for the season, and will work wonderfully well with neutral hues. The splash of color will ensure you stand out too.
RRP: $17.90 / £12.99 | An accessory with plenty of styling potential, this striking narrow scarf can be worn in multiple ways, such as looped around your neck, woven through your belt loops, or even in your hair. The combination of the print and fringed ends gives it a vintage feel.
RRP: $280 / £250 | A white boot is just as versatile as black and will add lightness to looks all through the fall/winter season. The slouchy fit and creamy color add a bohemian feel. Crafted from quality leather, they will age well, but make sure to keep them clean to maximize their lifecycle.
6. What to wear for engagement photos in the winter
What you need…
- Cozy coat
- Simple dress
- Ankle boots
Although the summer is often billed as 'wedding season', with warmer months the most popular for couples to exchange vows, we do love a winter wedding, which means we're big fans of a winter engagement photoshoot too. Take advantage of the colder weather by wrapping up in cozy winter coats and luxe, tactile layers. Faux fur, teddy bear fabrics, and boucle are top picks for texture and warmth, adding depth to photos instantly. Keep it classic with neutral tones of black, beige, and cream, and add a pop of color with the help of contrasting detailing or a statement accessory. The closer you book your engagement photoshoot to the holiday season, the prettier towns and cities will look and you can take advantage of the festive atmosphere too.
A styling tip… If you're worried about layers swamping your figure, look for high quality, tailored coats to ensure you're warm enough without losing your shape.
Fashion editor’s picks…
RRP: $280 / £250 | Want to show off your pins? Opt for a hip length coat to elongate your lower torso. The deep berry hue will go with pretty much everything and instantly evoke the winter season. This is an ideal length for petite frames too.
RRP: $140 / £95 | One of the best midi dresses, the jersey fabric makes this a joy to wear, while the semi-fitted shape adds structure to your silhouette. The gentle drape through the middle and into the A-line skirt will subtly flatter midriffs too.
RRP: $130 / £113 | When it comes to the fashion trends 2022, animal print remains a key look for the new season. Fancier than your average ankle boots, this snakeskin pair are sure to turn heads. Wear with black tights or tucked under your jeans.
7. What to wear for engagement photos in the spring
What you need…
- Romantic blouse
- Tailored pants
- Statement sunglasses
Spring is the season with the most sartorial promise, as we shake off our winter layers and swap them for something lighter and brighter. It’s the perfect time to wear sugary pastel shades like lemon yellow, dainty blues, and powdery pinks. You might even want to wear a hue similar to the one you're planning on for the best bridesmaid dresses to continue the theme across your photography.
A high-low feel of mixing feminine pieces with sharp tailoring will make for a chic outfit. Team a pair of tailored pants with a floaty, romantic blouse - complete with detailing such as an oversized collar, flowing sleeves, or frilled cuffs. Or, pair a floral midi dress with a tailored blazer.
A styling tip… If you’re opting for a scoop or V-neckline, make the most of the extra skin on show by layering necklaces.
Fashion editor’s picks…
RRP: $125 / £110 | The little details make this blouse a must-buy. We love the botanical print, of course, but the dainty gold buttons, contrast trim, and the subtle side splits all contribute to the overall finish. The linen fabric is ideal for warmer weather.
RRP: $19.99 / £19.99 | Wondering what to wear with wide leg pants? Pair these blue-grey tailored pants with a more fitted top half to highlight the front pleat and pocket detailing. With an androgynous finish, soften the look with a floaty feminine blouse.
RRP: $39.99 / £22.99 | Square-framed sunglasses are having a real moment. Take note of the sunglasses trends 2022 and opt for a bold shape in a transitional brown tortoiseshell. Scoop your hair back into a ponytail to let these really frame your face.
8. In the summer
What you need…
- Summer dress
- Slider sandals
- Crossbody bag
The arrival of summer means really embracing color. You’ll most likely be wearing white (or similar) on your wedding day, so now’s the time to really experiment with different hues - the brighter the better. Sunset-inspired shades are perfect for the time of year and the occasion, so let a palette of pinks, reds, oranges, and yellows be your starting point. Puff sleeves and square or sweetheart necklines remain popular this season, with asymmetric necklines making a comeback too. A high pie-crust neck or shirt dress are failsafe choices that won’t date, just add slip-on sandals, trainers, or strappy heels to finish the look.
A styling tip… Keep your accessories in the same tones as your dress to avoid stealing focus in the photos.
Fashion editor’s picks…
RRP: $119 / £85 | A great floral dress will never go out of style. The shirred waist adds definition to your middle without the need for a belt. Wear the puff shoulders up over your shoulder or down highlighting your collar bones if the weather is really warm.
RRP: $80 / £69 | We love a chunky sandal, and with both a raffia and a ridged sole, these certainly tick that box. The metallic finish adds extra polish to this look, offering an additional on-trend twist. The double buckles makes them comfy and secure.
RRP: $160 / £145 | Bring any look up to date with the handbag trends 2022 and the crescent shape is one we expect to see in droves this season. The turquoise shade adds a subtle statement, while the high shine buckle adds a dose of luxe.
What are the best colors to wear for engagement photos?
“Some consideration should be given to your shoot location in regards to outfit colors,” says Charlotte. “If you’re headed to the beach, wear lighter colors, and shoes that you can easily take off to walk in the sand or along the water in. You could also consider the season and try and coordinate with the colors you might come across in nature. Pastels or creams for blossom trees in spring if you’re in a park and reds, oranges, and browns in the fall. I find that bold colors look good against darker greens, so if you’re in the woods for your engagement shoot, you’ll really pop against the backdrop.” If you’re planning to use the photographs as part of your wedding (such as on the invites or favors) then it's also a good idea to make sure your outfits coordinate (or at least don’t clash) with your color scheme.
What should couples wear for engagement photos?
Putting together one outfit is hard enough, without having to think about your partner’s outfit too. Ideally, you want them to feel in synergy with each other, without looking too matchy-matchy or forced - as you don't want to look like '90s pop band. But equally, it’s going to look pretty mismatched if one of you is clad in black tie or the best cocktail dresses while the other is rocking their favorite jeans and trainers combination. Try to coordinate colors or at least choose complementary hues to ensure your looks gel. You could also both opt for a neutral or monochrome palette with a splash of the same color or similar tones and certainly not clash. For example, if you’re wearing pale blue, and your partner is in navy, that will work really well.
“Don’t feel like you have to go over the top or buy something new,” advises Zoë Burke, Wedding Expert, and Editor at Hitched.co.uk. “You want these pictures to represent you as a couple and feel timeless. Depending on the location you choose and the time you have with your photographer, you could always pack an outfit change or two so you have options.”
“It’s worth considering what you’ll use these photos for too,” continues Zoë. “If they’re going on an invitation or being used in any wedding signage, then you might want to include a more wedding-y outfit in the mix.”
Do you have to wear a dress for engagement photos?
The question of whether you have to wear a dress for engagement photos is a big, responding, say-it-louder-for-the-people-at-the-back “no!”. Just as some brides might feel more comfortable in a tailored two-piece or a flattering jumpsuit than a frothy frock on their wedding day, there is no pressure to slip into a frock for your engagement photos either. Dress according to your personal style, not any preconceived ideas of what’s expected. If you are opting for a dress, just keep the hemline in mind, as a mini dress can quickly become a hindrance if you’re posing sitting down or shooting on a windy day. A midi dress is often a good compromise, teaming fashion with functionality.
What not to wear for engagement photos
Like a rogue relative that’s snaffled one too many free drinks at a wedding reception, there are some outfits to steer clear of for your engagement photos. But it’s not as simple as sharing advice like “don’t wear black” or “avoid hats”, as it’s ultimately down to what makes you feel most comfortable. Everyone is different, and what makes one person feel another might leave another tense and awkward (which, frustratingly, will be reflected in the photos). “I wouldn’t rule anything out, but I would say be sure to pick clothes you feel comfortable and confident in,” advises Zoë. “If that’s glamorous formalwear, go for it! If it’s your favorite shorts and a nice top combo, then wear that. Your engagement photos are meant to be natural and represent this happy time in your relationship, so if you’re all trussed up in something you wouldn’t normally wear then you might not get that vibe!”
“Wearing an outfit you feel good in will take a big part of the worry away so you can concentrate on being directed by the photographer and having a great time with your partner,” adds Charlotte.
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