12 best sex toys to help you reach a mind-blowing orgasm in no time
We've tried, tested, and reviewed the best sex toys for every skill level and budget
The best sex toys come in all shapes and sizes. From bullets and pebbles to dildos, rabbits, and so much more, there's truly an option out there for everyone. Plus, with an ever-growing number of sex toy brands to choose from, there's more choice than ever before.
The pleasure sector has seen a boom in innovation over the last couple of years with both big-name brands and smaller independents bringing new concepts to the market. As a result, there are some incredible new designs worth getting excited about. With sleek aesthetics, high-tech extras, and pleasure-enhancing features like gentle air suction and stimulating textures, sex toys have entered a new era.
"As well as the benefits of using a vibrator solo, introducing sex toys into your relationship can enhance communication about how and where you want to be touched, and add a bit of novelty to your play," says Megwyn White, a certified sexologist and director of education at Satisfyer. "Some products can also help support couples when challenged with issues of stamina and performance. For instance, cock rings are wonderful tools to help support longer and stronger erections while also enhancing pleasure for both partners with vibrations. Similarly, products that excite the clitoris can be incredibly helpful when exploring penetrative sex."
Finding the best sex toy for you is so important though, as your needs and your body will be different from others using the toy to enhance your sex life. Here, we've rounded up the general best sex toys along with individual winners in categories such as clitoral stimulators, G-spot stimulators, dildos, and anal toys. Whether you want the best vibrator money can buy or something to start off your collection, we've tried and tested some of the best sex toys and ranked our favourites according to their best features.
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The best sex toys, tested by us
Best for clitoral stimulation
RRP: £113
The Lelo Smart Wand 2 is our pick of the best wand vibrators and toys for clitoral stimulation. "This vibrator feels amazing around the clitoris and entire vulva, with even the lowest vibration levels offering a smooth, steady buzz," says our tester Ellen.
Made from smooth silicone and available in pink, blue, or black colours, the toy has a bulbous head on the end, typical of wand vibrators, with a flexible neck. This neck flexes around the vulva wherever you place it, meaning you can choose between targeted clitoral vibrations in one spot or lighter, all-over stimulation.
Settings: 10
Reasons to buy: Premium materials, versatile use
Reasons to avoid: Louder than some other wand vibrators
Best for clitoral suction
RRP: £46
The Satisfyer The Curvy 1+ uses air pressure technology to provide focused, rather than pinpointed, stimulation. It's the perfect clitoral vibrator for a slow build, giving gentle air pressure that increases with the addition of vibrations for mixed (and super intense) stimulation.
This toy comes with the added benefit of an app as well, making it one of the best remote vibrators on the list too. The Satisfyer Connect app has four main screens, Close Range, Remote Partner, Community Share, and Alarms. Depending on how brave you're feeling, you can either hand control over to a partner, set functions for yourself, or even give up control to a stranger using the app - whatever floats your boat.
Settings: 11 pressure intensities and 11 vibration settings
Reasons to buy: Offers air suction and vibrations, easy to use
Reasons to avoid: More general stimulation than pinpointed
Best unique sex toy
RRP: £54.99
For a unique alternative to one of the best bullet vibrators, complete with advanced suction technology, the rose sex toy is the pick of the bunch. The centre of the rose is designed to hug the clitoris snugly for direct, heavy stimulation and, on testing, it did not disappoint. When in use, the rose pushes out puffs of air to stimulate the clitoris, much like the Satisfyer Curvy +1, although it does not also offer vibration.
The only downside to the rose is that it's not as ergonomic as other toys, given the shape. Some people may find it harder to hold at the bulb, for example, so consider the option with a stem if this might be something you'll struggle with.
Settings: 10
Reasons to buy: Very unique shape and design, intense stimulation
Reasons to avoid: Not as easy to hold as others
Best rabbit vibrator
RRP: £125
The Lelo Ina Wave 2 is one of the best rabbit vibrators but there's so much more to it. With a rounded shaft and a smaller arm for clitoral stimulation, both arms move independently and there are added functions for vibration.
The rounded shaft, once inserted into the vagina, curves up and round to put pressure on the vaginal wall where the G-spot is located. It then mimics a ‘come hither’ motion while the clitoral arm moves independently for stimulation in both areas. Finding the right combination of settings can move you to achieve incredible blended orgasms in record time.
Settings: 10
Reasons to buy: Premium materials, independent arms for G-spot and clitoral movements
Reasons to avoid: The mechanism is loud and mechanical
Easiest to use
RRP: £59.95
The Hot Octopuss DiGiT looks a little different from other sex toys, but don’t let it deceive you. This device is a small but mighty toy created as an extension of the wearer’s hand. Curving to the contour of your fingers, it’s discreet, elegant and it packs a punch when it comes to delivering an amazing orgasm.
I find I can enjoy the toy without having to worry about holding it in the right position constantly as you do with a bullet vibrator. It's also great for clitoral stimulation during partnered sex as well as when you use it on your own, it's waterproof so you don't have to worry about using it in the shower, and offers multiple speeds and programs so there's something for everyone.
Settings: 5 speeds and 5 patterns
Reasons to buy: Finger loop for easy use, intense vibrations
Reasons to avoid: Wider tip doesn't offer pinpointed stimulation
Best discreet vibrator
RRP: £65
The Crave Vesper is a sleek wearable bullet vibrator, made of stainless steel and finished in 24K gold with a matching chain. It's very popular these days, so perhaps not quite the discreet vibrator it once was, but most people still wouldn't recognise it. Surprisingly powerful, lightweight and the perfect accompaniment to any outfit, the Vesper shows how far sextech has come and how far it could still go.
The Vesper, which is also one of our best luxury sex toys can be layered with other pieces of jewellery and dressed up or down. High-grade gold makes this device skin-safe, plus it quickly warms to your skin's temperature.
Settings: 4
Reasons to buy: Discreet design, powerful vibrations
Reasons to avoid: Only 4 settings to choose from
Best sex toy for beginners
RRP: £42
Satisfyer's Charming Smile is a top-tier option for a G-spot vibrator, without the premium pricing. My favourite feature is the flexible shaft, which naturally rests on your G-spot and you can flex to suit your body - both inside and out, as the head of this vibrator makes for a great clitoral stimulator as well.
The Charming Smile makes the top pick for the best sex toys for beginners because of these versatile features and how easy it is to use. The toy fits seamlessly into the palm of my hand and the loop handle makes it easier to hold the toy and access the control pad during use. Plus, there are 12 different vibration settings and the toy is made from smooth silicone material, which almost guarantees an easy ride if you pair it with your choice of the best lube.
Settings: 12
Reasons to buy: Flexible when in use, premium materials, easy to use
Reasons to avoid: Magnetic charging point can come away from the charger
Best sustainable
RRP: £89.99
Love Not War is a sustainable sex toy brand that minimises waste and makes it easy to switch up your self-love routine depending on your mood. The Amore features a sleek rose gold handle and a sloped silicone head for smooth, targeted stimulation across multiple settings.
The Amore is part of a collection by Love Not War and being a sustainable sex toy brand, it offers one base that can be used for all of the toys and allows you to swap them out interchangeably if you buy direct from the brand. It's the feature I love most about this brand. Not only does it save space and money, it's perfect for those with a limited collection who want a bit of everything. If you already own one of Love Not War's excellent vibrators and just want the AMORE head attachment, you can buy that separately for £44.99.
Settings: 4 intensity levels and 7 vibration patterns
Reasons to buy: Multiple heads available, premium materials, very quiet when in use
Reasons to avoid: Heavy, slim design means it's harder to hold than some other toys
Best for couples
RRP: £79.99
The Pivot is a multi-function ring-shaped vibrator ideal for penetrative sex, making it a favourite among couples. A waterproof ring worn around the base of the penis or sex toy during penetration, the Pivot is great for sex in the shower. It offers stimulation to the vulva and clitoris and the penis and testicles so it’s pretty all-encompassing for a small device. It makes a great addition to oral sex and takes stimulation with hands to a whole new level.
The Pivot also offers long-distance options with the free We-Connect app. The wearer and their partner can experiment with controlling the functions of the toy through their phones from separate locations. With 11 vibration modes and two-hour battery life, it’s safe to say that any distance between you and your partner ceases to be much of an issue when this toy is involved.
Settings: 10
Reasons to buy: App connectivity, hands-free clitoral stimulation
Reasons to avoid: Requires skin-to-skin to maintain clitoral contact so not ideal for some positions and moves
Best dildo
RRP: £22.99
With so many shapes, sizes, textures, and features, the definition of the best dildo is essentially the greatest crowd-pleaser. For this reason, the Curved 7 Inch is a winner, offering every feature you might need with a smooth silicone finish.
The head of this dildo is semi-realistic which makes it ideal for stimulation of the G-spot but the tapered shape means it’s never too difficult to insert or remove. The flared base mimics the slight widening at the base of a penis and also allows for a suction feature, meaning you can stick this toy to a wall or the side of a bathtub for hands-free fun and sex in the shower.
Reasons to buy: Versatile use, reasonable price point
Reasons to avoid: Seven inches may be a little much for some people, so if you're after something a little smaller in length (but girthier) then try out the BASICS Suction Cup Dildo 6 Inch.
Best hands-free toy
RRP: £132
At first glance, the Dame EVA 2 might not look like a sex toy as it's so unique in design. Two small arms hook over the outer labia, allowing hands-free clitoral stimulation. The main body of the otherwise small toy stays fixed over the clitoris, leaving you free to touch yourself or your partner, to add some penetration into the mix, or to simply sit back and relax.
Made from smooth silicone with three intensity levels controlled by a small button on top of the device, the EVA II has a battery life of five hours - unless you’re running it on the highest setting, I found, then it may only last an hour.
Settings: 3 intensity levels
Reasons to buy: Small in size for direct stimulation
Reasons to avoid: Only a few intensity levels to choose from
Best for anal sex
RRP: £20
Satisfyer's Love Beads make for the perfect playmate if you're new to anal sex. Both are made from body-safe silicone and have different textures across the balls so there's a great variety of feeling when they're in use, which can either be during solo play or in combination with another sex toy - like a bullet or G-spot vibrator. You can even use these beads during penetrative sex for additional stimulation.
"I've never tried anything like this before so I was a little nervous about giving them a go, but the quality of the silicone is high as they feel super soft, even without any lube on them. Although you definitely will need this whenever you're using them," says our tester, who picked these as one of the best sex toys thanks to the beads' super-accessible shape and size. "There's a normal ring on the end of one of the beads, which I've seen on other types of toys like this since trying these, but the other one has a longer strap which you can wrap around your wrist. I've never felt concerned but I wanted a wrist-strap but it does feel more secure than the ring so it's very reassuring."
Reasons to buy: Good size for beginners, large loop handle
Reasons to avoid: Wrist strap on only one set of beads
How we tested and selected the best sex toys
We spoke with experts to determine the best sex toys available for beginners, for the more practiced, for solo sex and partnered sex. Taking cost and practicality into account, we looked at the best budget sex toys, high-end thrills, innovative sex tech, hands-free, and miniature devices. Once we explored the collection and consulted the experts on what makes a great sex toy, the woman&home health team tested every toy ourselves.
How to choose one of the best sex toys
- Find out what you like: This is the most important part of choosing a sex toy - they're supposed to be pleasurable after all. "I recommend getting to know your body using your own hands to help feel the details of where you like the touch," says White. "Sexual wellness devices are then great for adding extra stimulation. Think of them as tangible guides to pleasure, helping you to tune in and become more responsive to sensual touch."
- Consider materials: White suggests looking carefully at the materials your potential purchases will be made from. Consider whether silicone, which is easy to clean but can't be used with certain types of lubricant, will be a better choice for you than glass for instance, which is ideal for those who love temperature play.
- What's your budget? The best sex toys can range from just a few dollars or pounds into the hundreds, so it's important to figure out your budget before you start shopping. However, just because the toy is more expensive doesn't it'll offer more than one of the best vibrators to buy on Amazon.
- Location, location, location: Where are you going to use your sex toy? If you're planning sex in the shower, you'll need a toy that's totally waterproof or at least submersible. If not, then it may not be so much of a concern. If you're taking your toy away with you to use abroad, you'll need to consider one with a travel lock to prevent any awkward buzzes from your suitcase mid-flight.
- USB chargeable or batter-powdered: Many of the best sex toys are chargeable via a USB cable which fits neatly into a main power source. However, others require batteries. Either charging method won't necessarily affect how the toy works but you'll need to decide if you prefer one over the other before buying. For example, ask yourself whether you'll really remember to buy batteries.
How to care for your sex toys
- Learn how to clean sex toys: If you want your new purchase/s to stand the test of time, it's worth investing in cleaning supplies to keep them well-washed and free of dust and debris from the bedroom. For most sex toys, simple bod-safe soap and warm water will be enough but others may require more specialist methods. Always read the care instructions for your toy before cleaning.
- Find out how to store sex toys: Keeping your sex toys clean and safe when they are not in use is equally as important. Silk or satin storage will always be best for the material but if they're going to be thrown around a bit (i.e. you're going to take them in your suitcase on holiday), it may be worth investing in some more secure storage options. Also, storing toys made of porous materials (e.g. rubber or jelly) together will cause them to degrade.
- Store the chargers with the toys: We all know the frustration of not being able to find a phone or laptop charger when we need one - now imagine not being the charger for your favourite sex toy. Where possible, always store the chargers with the vibrators.
Why couples should try using sex toys together
Whether the aim is a mind-blowing orgasm alone or with a partner, research from Rutgers University-Newark shows that masturbation techniques are good for the body and that sex toys can elevate experiences to new heights. If used with a partner, toys can be the catalyst for new and refreshing experiences and when used solo, they can be an incredible way to explore and reconnect with your body and sexual identity.
As noted, the benefits of using a vibrator include helping you (and your partner) understand where and how you each like to be touched, and adding an extra point of pleasure into the mix. For example, you might be having penetrative sex most of the time, but research from Concordia University shows that 70% of women actually need some kind of clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm. That's where it comes in handy to know how to use a bullet vibrator.
Who makes the best sex toys?
Some of the most recognisable names, like LELO, Womanizer, Lovehoney and Smile Makers, make the best sex toys. But like we said, every body is different, so what one person considers to be the world's best vibrator, might not be the same to the next.
However, there is an index of quality, innovation and consideration for women's health and pleasure that factors in how we select the best sex toys. We know, for example, that certain body-safe materials, such as phylate -free, medical-grade, vegan and cruelty-free silicone are used by certain brands and not by others. We also know that rechargeable high-spec motors and batteries are used in the best vibrators in the world, but that in others, you can use AAA or AA batteries.
In a world where femtech and sex positivity are huge talking points, women all over the world are prioritizing their pleasure and self-care. As a result, sexual wellness categories are some of the most visited areas on many shopping sites and we're seeing new brands pop up every day. All of the contenders on this list, for example, have been carefully selected and many have been created by brands that are only a year or two old.
In order to select a toy that's right for you, consider your personal criteria in terms of the sensations you enjoy, things you'd like to experiment with, and how you tend to practice self-touch. Then consider things like materials, sustainability credentials, weight, size, cost and whether the company supports any charity initiatives or supports women's health more broadly. Think about how the object might look on your nightstand, whether you plan on using it with a partner, or solo, whether you have plans to travel with it, the sound it makes and how it charges. Build a collection that suits you and your needs in order to fully embrace your sexual potential.
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Grace Walsh is woman&home's Health Channel Editor, working across the areas of fitness, nutrition, sleep, mental health, relationships, and sex. In 2024, she will be taking on her second marathon in Rome, cycling from Manchester to London (350km) for charity, and qualifying as a certified personal trainer.
A digital journalist with over six years experience as a writer and editor for UK publications, Grace has covered (almost) everything in the world of health and wellbeing with bylines in Cosmopolitan, Red, The i Paper, GoodtoKnow, and more.
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