What to wear on a first date can be a sartorial nightmare. As a single woman who also happens to be a fashion editor, I’ve had plenty of practice in dating and style and, after some hits and misses, I’ve finally managed to master what to wear on a first date. So if you’re about to embark on a first date and are having a wardrobe meltdown, I’ve got a few tips and tricks to help you nail that first date look.
You only get one chance to make a first impression, so if you're meeting someone via a blind date or a dating app, deciding what to wear on a first date carries a lot of pressure. But don't fear, chances are you have a capsule wardrobe full of items that can easily be styled for a first date. From your best jeans to the best dresses, whatever you decide to wear on a first date, there’s one key thing I’ve learned—be comfortable. If you’re comfortable in what you’re wearing, you’ll be more relaxed and confident, which is the winning formula for feeling your best self on a first date.
Avoid anything ill-fitting, from clingy tops of shoes that rub, as you'll spend the whole evening feeling self-conscious and fiddling with your outfit, which is never a good look. If you want to ensure your clothes sit properly, you might want to invest in the best shapewear as the right foundations ensure your clothes will fit better too.
What to wear on a casual first date
Of course, what to wear on a first date also depends on where you are going. Daytime dates tend to be more casual than evening dates, so jeans and a nice top is a fail-safe option. It's a good idea to wear comfortable flats too, just in case there are any impromptu romantic strolls. If you need an extra layer, a blazer or a classic trench coat will keep you warm and smarten up the look in case it runs into the evening, which is definitely a good sign!
When it comes to accessories, you can allow yourself to be a bit more daring. Accessories are a good way of injecting some personality into your look without going overboard. A statement earring from any of the best jewelry brands or a color-popping shoe will jazz up that simple jeans and best t-shirt combo or add a bit of pizzazz to a more pared-back dress.
What to wear on a first date in the evening
Evening dates require a little more sartorial work. A printed midi dress is my go-to, especially if I’m dashing straight from work to the date. A swankier venue may require a pair of heels too—check out the best designer heels for some inspo, but if I’m just hitting the pub, a pair of box-fresh sneakers will give a dress that laidback, ‘I didn’t make too much effort’ edge.
If dresses aren't your thing, you can also smarten jeans up with a pretty blouse and a pair of mules or strappy sandals. Avoid distressed detailing on your denim, and opt for darker shades if you want a dressier take. Mom jeans are flattering on all shapes, sitting high on the waist and tapering at the leg. They are super easy to dress up or down without appearing too ‘done up.’ Plus, they have a cool, vintage aesthetic that will give you a few extra fashion points.
What is the best color to wear on a first date?
There are lots of so-called rules about color when it comes to what to wear on a first date. There has even been some research that suggests men are more attracted to red, but what if that’s not your color?
The fashion trends 2022 have dished up a lot of great trends, with 'Dopamine Dressing', being at the forefront. This trend is all about mood-boosting colors and so if you want to really make a splash, think about working in some bright color clothing to your outfit, or at the very least add a pop of bold color to your outfit through an accessory to a muted or darker outfit. Wearing color suggest confidence and that's key on a first date.
To work out what colors what best for you, check out our feature on what colors suit me? As a starting point for which colors to wear on a first date. I wear a lot of green as it compliments my skin tone and matches my eyes. Smooth, I know!
What to wear on a first date: five outfit formulas to fall in love with
I’ve rounded up the best outfit combinations that will work whatever date you’re having. So even if your date doesn’t turn out to be ‘the one,’ at least your outfit will be.
1. Blazer + Jeans
What you need…
- The best blazer (opens in new tab)
- Casual tee
- Jeans
When a suit feels too stuffy for a date, opt for a blazer and jeans combo instead. The blazer will add instant polish to denim whilst the jeans will keep the look feeling more lowkey. You can keep the shoes casual and opt for a pair of the best white trainers for a daytime stroll or switch to a sleek sandal for a dressier date.
A styling tip…
Inject some personality into this look and add a fun accessory such as a chic scarf or statement bag. Or opt for a bright colored blazer to lift the look.
Our fashion editor recommends…
RRP: $185 / £189 | Spotted on the likes of Katie Holmes, this blazer is fast becoming a cult buy. The exaggerated shoulders offer a retro feel and the gingham print keeps it timeless. Swap your jeans for the matching trousers to go all-out.
RRP: $29.50 / £33 | A wardrobe essential, every summer outfit needs a white tank. The ideal layering tool, it will give your blazer a more casual spin when worn underneath. Offset the cropped hem with high waist jeans.
RRP: $24.99 / £19.99 | Not only are these jeans a bargain buy but they fit like a dream with an extra high waist and tapered leg. Keep your top tucked in to help define your shape. Available in seven washes, go for darker hues to keep it smart.
2. Dress + Casual Flats
What you need…
- Statement dress
- White trainers
- Cute clutch
This look is perfect for a springtime date. A statement dress is an instant outfit maker and the casual shoes give it an effortless edge. Perfect if you’re getting ready in a hurry, it needs minimal styling, just add a fun clutch and some delicate jewelry. You can always add the best leather jacket for an extra layer.
A styling tip…
Stick to longer-length dresses that are easy to sit down in. Floaty, a-line styles work best, offering a flattering and feminine silhouette that’s comfortable too.
Our fashion editor recommends…
RRP: $129 / £95 | When it comes to the perfect summer dress, this ticks all the boxes. From the puff sleeves to the flattering v-neckline to sweet plaid print. The a-line skirt keeps it floaty and feminine and it looks just as good paired with flats or heels.
RRP: $216.77 / £165 | Taking inspo from the tennis court shoe, these sleek sneakers have a smarter aesthetic than your average trainer. A mix of smooth leather with suede paneling for extra interest, they’re a forever classic.
RRP: $79.99 / £49.99 | Roomy enough for the date-night essentials—that’s your phone, credit card and lippy—this braided bag will add a pop of color to your outfit. The square design gives it a contemporary update.
3. Blouse + Jeans
What you need…
- Your best jeans
- A fancy blouse
- Comfortable heels
If dresses aren’t your thing, this is another easy look that has maximum impact, with minimum effort. You can keep it sleek and understated in a classic striped shirt, or be more daring in a bolder print or fancy embellishments. Keeping the focus firmly on your top half, it’s a great one for dinner dates where the rest of your look may be hidden under the table!
A styling tip…
If you opt for a high waist jean, tuck in your top or opt for a cropped blouse to show off the waist.
Our fashion editor recommends…
RRP: $225 / £135 | With a vibrant floral print and flowy fabric, this blouse oozes romance. There’s a tie-waist detail and ruched cuffs for added structure. Keep the rest of your look simple when wearing this statement top.
RRP: $148 / £150 | Wide leg jeans are serious leg-lengtheners and these have an ultra-high waist for an added boost. The cropped hem length helps you show off some fancy shoes too.
RRP: $49.90 / £29.99 | Simple and sleek these slingbacks will go with anything your wardrobe throws at it. The gold metal detailing on the heel adds a luxe touch and the low block heel ensures all day (and night!) comfort.
4. Skirt + Cute Knit
What you need…
- Slim-fit knit
- Swishy skirt
- The best sunglasses
Mixing a more casual item with something dressier is a fail-safe formula for a pulled-together look that doesn’t scream “I spent hours getting ready”. A pleated or a-line skirt is super flattering and feminine. Pair with the best cashmere sweater for an extra luxe touch and finish with an elegant accessory.
A styling tip…
Both heels and flats look great with this look so it’s up to you how dressy you want to go. Comfortable flats, such as a sleek loafer—a big shoe trend for 2022, is a stylish choice, for keeping the look smart.
Our fashion editor recommends…
RRP: $285 / £168 | A pleated skirt is a must-have in your capsule wardrobe. The knife pleats are super flattering, allowing for easy movement. It won't crease when you sit down either!
RRP: $155 / £89 | Look to luxury fabrics such as cashmere to make your knitwear evening appropriate. This button-up cardigan is sweet and understated and comes in an array of colors to suit every outfit.
RRP: $400 / £320 | These designer sunnies will elevate your look in an instant. The tortoiseshell design keeps them classic, check out what sunglasses suit me for some silhouette help.
5. Dress + Mid Heel
What you need…
- The best midi dresses
- A mid-heel
- Crossbody bag
Some dates, such as evening cocktails or dinner may require something a little dressier, which is when this combo steps in. Stick to classic cuts such as a wrap or shirt dress that nip in at the waist for a flattering silhouette.
A styling tip…
Comfort is key so unless you’re used to wearing sky-high heels, look to a block heel or low kitten heel instead. They look just as smart but can be a lot more wearable.
Our fashion editor recommends…
RRP: $259 / £129 | A feminine take on tailoring, this classic shirt dress is a wardrobe winner. It has a subtle floral print on a hot pink hue for a romantic finish. You’ll get plenty of wear out of it too—just swap heels for trainers for a more relaxed look.
RRP: $49 / £49 | These mules have a low block heel for comfort and simple straps for an unfussy finish. Don’t be afraid to clash colors, pink and red make a dreamy combo. Great with jeans too, you'll get plenty of wear out of these.
RRP: $450 / £395 | One of the best designer handbags, this is a scaled-down version of the iconic pillow bag. Cute and compact, a crossbody bag is a practical choice for date night, keeping you hands-free for all that hand holding too!
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