Best underwear solutions partywear for women over 50 - according to a 56 year old style expert

We round up the best underwear solutions for partywear for women over 50

the best underwear solutions for partywear including black high waisted briefs, shorts and brown sculpting knickers
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The best underwear solutions for underneath partywear are integral to you feeling your best when you're all dressed up. Regardless of age of body type, getting the correct foundations under an outfit will ensure everything sits just as it should and you'll feel fully supported. 

The pressure to dress up and look and feel your best goes hand-in-hand with the festive season, where we often find our diaries filling up with party commitments to everyone from colleagues to family and friends. And even once you've nailed your best party outfit, solving the best underwear solutions to wear underneath your outfit offers a whole new sartorial dilemma. You'll want to feel comfortable to drink and eat and possibly be on your feet for several hours, but you also want to feel supported and sculpted under your cocktail dress. We get it. 

While the best shapewear used to have quite the reputation for being too tight and uncomfortable, made to squash your shape rather than enhance it. Modern underwear solutions for partywear are all about celebrating, sculpting and uplifting women's bodies, so you get the support you want, but in lightweight fabrics that make you feel great, as opposed to constricted. 

How to decide on the best underwear for party season for women over 50?

In order to get the best underwear solutions for partywear, you first have to start by taking your measurements properly. For the best bra, it is advisable to see a professional to secure your measurements, however, if you want to learn how to measure your bra size at home, it is doable. 

Once sizing has been established - remember when it comes to how to wear shapewear you don't want to size down - you want to buy your correct size. It's working out what areas of your silhouette need extra support, lift or contouring in order to select the best underwear solution. 

1. BEST TUMMY CONTROL UNDERWEAR FOR WOMEN OVER 50

If you are looking for a pair of briefs to wear with dresses to hide a tummy or need to create a smooth line under a close fitting pair of trousers you can invest in a pair of shapewear briefs that have a firm central panel across the tummy area that works to contour and support your midriff. Opt for a full brief that covers the tummy area, rather than cutting through your middle and look out for styles with a seam free construction for a smooth finish. 

Don’t be tempted to buy a smaller size in the quest for more support. Look instead at the level of support the briefs offer, as shapewear briefs are often rated from light to firm control. Those rated firm will have the most supportive structure. However, while they will noticeably hold you in, they shouldn't feel uncomfortable or too restrictive.

2. BEST BUM LIFTING UNDERWEAR FOR WOMEN OVER 50

Celebrate your figure and show off a shapely derrière in a pair of faux leather leggings or silky slip skirt this festive season and with the right underwear solution, you can do so with bags of confidence. 

Give yourself an extra boost with these underwear styles that can help to create more shape and a smoother line under the clingiest of fabrics. Choose from shapewear briefs that have uplifting panels or sheer tights that have extra support built in, all designed to give you a little lift.

3. BEST ALL-IN-ONE UNDERWEAR FOR WOMEN OVER 50

Wanting to look sexy doesn’t stop when you reach 50. A one-piece bodysuit can be a great way to add a risqué element to your outfit while still feeling confident and supported, wear one with a sequinned blazer, a velvet trouser suit as an alternative to a party top under a tuxedo for women. Ideal under semi-sheer fabrics like chiffon and lace these bodies provide more coverage than a bra and have added shaping abilities too. A great option if you are looking for the best bras for back fat, a body will smooth over your back area while still supporting your bust and look gorgeous too.

4. BEST THIGH AND LEG SHAPING UNDERWEAR FOR WOMEN OVER 50

Hemlines are getting shorter and regardless of age, if you want some secret support when flashing pins, there is an underwear solution for the partywear season. Ensure your legs look their best in clever tights that are designed with body-sculpting properties. Thigh supporting shapewear is another great way to sculpt your thighs with cycle shorts designed to create a smooth line under trousers, fitted dresses or longer capri styles trousers which will offer more coverage over the lower thigh and knee area, and are perfect too under a body-skimming maxi dress.

5. BEST BUST LIFTING UNDERWEAR FOR WOMEN OVER 50

Whatever your shape or size, it’s essential to wear a well-fitting and flattering bra with your partywear. Social media influencer Neens Ambrose comments “I’m a size 18 and wear a 36GG bra. Wearing the wrong shape of bra can make me feel frumpy, I need a decent bra with side support that lifts and separates my boobs to avoid them looking like one monoboob!” She continues. “A firm favourite, that I’ve worn for the last 12 years is the Deauville bra by Rigby & Peller. It’s a huge investment but is built to last, goes up to a K cup and will boost your confidence beyond belief!”

Best underwear solutions for partywear for women over 50 - what to look for

Whatever style of underwear you opt for, it’s essential to get the right fit, especially as we get older. 

Suzanne Pentland, Bra Fitting Expert and Retail Support Manager at Wacoal Europe explains. “As we age, our bodies can naturally change in shape and size. It is recommended that every six months we should have a professional bra fitting. This becomes more important as we get older as the skin elasticity in our breasts can stretch, causing our breasts to droop and lose their firmness. Making sure that our bra is the correct fit will ensure the breasts are supported and uplifted.” 

Suzanne continues “A correctly fitting bra will lift our breasts creating a longer and slimmer waistline. This will automatically change our silhouette making our clothing fit better and help us feel more confident in ourselves.”

Keeping our breasts supported in a well-fitting bra is just one of the ways we can improve the fit of our partywear. Getting the right style of briefs or opting for an all-in-one body needs consideration too. Figure-flattering shapewear is big business, with high street giant M&S selling over 605 pieces globally per hour. 

Soozie Jenkinson, Head of Lingerie & Sleep Design comments. “As a design team we are pretty obsessed with shapewear right now! There is a real buzz at the moment about getting 'dressed up' again for special occasions and the dramatic return on catwalks to contoured, body-con silhouettes has put a renewed focus on the shapewear category. We have been excited to innovate with silhouettes, fabrics and finishes across the shapewear wardrobe to ensure that we always have a modern range that will look sleek, stylish and feel incredibly comfortable to wear with each new piece we bring to the collection.” 

Our experts

Suzanne Pentland
Suzanne Pentland

With 13 years industry experience, Suzanne Pentland is the Retail Support Manager for Wacoal Europe. Suzanne is responsible for the Wacoal Lingerie Retail Team and Fitting Professionals across the UK and Ireland. Her passionate team ensures that across all Wacoal channels, department stores, independents and online customers are supported with fit knowledge, product information and training as required.

M&S Soozie Jenkinson
Soozie Jenkinson

Soozie Jenkinson has been the Head of Design for M&S Lingerie for 25 years. After graduating in Fashion Design at Kingston University Soozie worked for several retail brands before joining M&S to design lingerie and sleepwear. In her role at M&S Soozie is responsible for setting strategic product direction and overseeing the design and product development of the collection including M&S and sub-brands such as Autograph, Boutique and the collaboration with Rosie Huntington-Whitely which is going into its 12th year. Soozie believes that a good fitting bra is the foundation to every outfit and can help build inner confidence.

Neens Ambrose
Neens Ambrose

Neens is one half of the social empowering duo @rantsandbigpants (she’s the big pants!) After working as a Butlins Redcoat, followed by nearly 20 years in the cosmetics industry Nina now shares her passion for life as a curvy Instagram influencer. RantsAndBigPants organise uplifting, empowering, informative and fun weekends away for women who want to be part of their feel-good sisterhood.

Julie Player

Julie has over 30 years experience in the fashion industry and is a regular contributor to Woman & Home, Woman’s Weekly and Chat magazines, creating engaging fashion and lifestyle content for women of all ages. She also works in the wardrobe department at ITV, dressing the presenters for Good Morning Britain. Aged 57, Julie loves seeking out the most figure-flattering fashion for every occasion. She’s a qualified sustainable fashion expert with a wealth of knowledge of planet-friendly fashion brands and ways to shop more ethically.