Carole Middleton was 'dead set against' this huge Kate decision at first - and it could've changed everything

The Princess of Wales's parents were apparently quite surprised and uncertain when she announced she'd had a change of plans

A composite of a picture of Carole Middleton at Cheltenham and a picture of Kate at an engagement on the same day in 2026
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The Prince and Princess of Wales will be celebrating their 15th wedding anniversary next month and everyone knows the story of how they first met. However, Kate was initially set to attend Edinburgh University and not St Andrews, so her and William’s romance nearly never happened.

According to royal expert and author Russell Myers, Carole Middleton and her husband Michael were apparently totally "against" Kate changing her mind. Writing in William & Catherine: The Intimate Inside Story, he suggested that the Middleton matriarch was especially concerned when she first heard about Kate’s plan.

"At first, Carole and Michael were dead set against the idea, with Carole in particular worried about her daughter losing academic momentum," he claims, explaining that it was the Princess’s reasoning that eventually won her mum and dad round.

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Michael and Carole Middleton arrive at Westminster Abbey for the coronation on May 6, 2023

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William & Catherine: The Intimate Inside Story by Russell Myers | £11 (was £22) at Amazon

William & Catherine: The Intimate Inside Story by Russell Myers | £11 (was £22) at Amazon

The Prince and Princess of Wales are two of the most talked about people in the world and Myers' detailed biography traces their story back to the beginning. He drew on access to palace insiders and reflects upon everything from their childhoods, to their meeting and their royal wedding.

Myers states, "But after listening to Catherine explain that she believed she would be suited to the quieter surroundings of St Andrews rather than the city life that Edinburgh would provide, they agreed to her decision."

Carole and Michael’s apprehension might have been partly down to how unexpected it was. She returned from ten weeks volunteering in Chile during her gap year with this new idea "to present to her parents".

The author notes that the timing later resulted in "accusations that she changed her mind about Edinburgh because she wanted to follow the dashing young Prince William to St Andrews".

This reportedly wasn’t the case at all, with Myers suggesting that the Princess was inspired to consider St Andrews after bonding with an 18-year-old from Somerset whilst in South America.

Kate Middleton during her graduation ceremony at St Andrews, Thursday June 23, 2005

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This girl was apparently set to study engineering there and so Kate "decided to explore the option" of changing her own course. Having eased her parents’ uncertainty, the Princess of Wales went to St Andrews where she studied art history and became friends with the future King.

They were initially even on the same course before he later switched to geography. From the sounds of it, if Kate hadn’t done such an excellent job of explaining why she wanted to switch universities, her parents could potentially have tried to persuade her to stick with Edinburgh.

In that case, there would have been no meeting William, so it just goes to show that the smallest of changes can have a staggering impact on our lives.

Prince William, Prince of Wales, Carole Middleton and Michael Middleton attend day two of Royal Ascot 2024

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The entire Middleton family is incredibly close and they’ve whole-heartedly embraced Prince William as part of it. In the couple’s engagement interview in 2010, the Prince of Wales talked about how well he gets on with his in-laws.

"Kate's got a very, very close family. I get on really well with them and I'm very lucky that they've been so supportive," he said. "Mike and Carole have been really loving and caring and really fun and have been really welcoming towards me so I've felt really a part of the family."

In turn, they’ve been at so many big royal occasions such as the coronation and it’s been reported that Prince William really wanted them to be properly included in this event.

Emma is a Royal Editor with nine years of experience in publishing. She specialises in writing about the British Royal Family, covering everything from protocol to outfits. Alongside putting her extensive royal knowledge to good use, Emma knows all there is to know about the latest TV shows on the BBC, ITV and more. When she’s not writing about the latest royal outing or unmissable show to add to your to-watch list, Emma enjoys cooking, long walks and watching yet more crime dramas!

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