The scents you should never wear to a dinner party - and the 9 perfumes you can't go wrong with

Gearing up to host a festive gathering? These dinner party perfumes serve sophistication...

Perfumes from YSL, Diptyque and Malin+Goetz are pictured in a pink and gold glitter template
(Image credit: YSL, Diptyque and Malin+Goetz)

A gathering with friends and family isn't just an opportunity to prove your hosting prowess but also to leave a good-smelling impression on your inner circle, which is where the best dinner party perfumes come in...

When selecting from the best perfumes for women, often having an occasion in mind - like a wedding or holiday - can prove helpful. Scents are often used to create memories or ambience but of course, you don't always need to be venturing outdoors to warrant a spritz of your favourite floral fragrances. That being said though, there are some notes that don't belong at an intimate gathering - namely ones that are overpowering and headache-inducing.

So, to ensure you leave your guests wanting more, rather than getting a nose-full (so to speak), we've enlisted the expertise of  Michelle Feeney, founder of Floral Street, Mona Kattan, co-founder of Huda Beauty and Kayali and Ciello Tuazon, Senior Director of Global Product Innovation at MALIN+GOETZ, to bring us the best elegant scents for your next soirée and the notes to avoid...

4 perfume notes to avoid for intimate settings

When it comes to selecting your signature hosting perfume for a close-knit gathering or dinner setting, heady and intensive scents are a big no-no. You want your guest to be charmed, not overpowered and there are a few notes, in particular, that we recommend avoiding...

  • Patchouli 
  • Oud
  • Tuberose
  • Vanilla (we love vanilla scents but if the percentage is high, it can be very sickly)

Base notes are the aromas that tend to last the longest, so it's best to avoid fragrances with really strong, lasting notes for a more low-key event. Instead, aim for subtle but luxe notes of musk, warm woods, delicate florals and sparkling citruses. woman&home's Digital Beauty Editor, Aleesha Badkar also recommends perfumes with saffron, which adds an earthy but sweet aroma. Plus she adds, "It's quite a rare and expensive note" - which is exactly what we're going for with these dinner party signatures. 

9 chic and festive dinner party perfumes to impress

Of course, when it comes to selecting the perfect dinner party scent, personal preference is a big factor. However, there are a few perfume notes that are akin to sophistication. So with that in mind, here are nine fragrances that smell like luxury, bottled - plus recommendations straight from the experts themselves...

What makes a chic dinner party perfume?

If you're looking to build a wealth of expensive and long-lasting perfumes, knowing what defines a so-called pricey-smelling scent will help in your search...

Founder of Floral Street Michelle Feeney
Michelle Feeney

Michelle Feeney is the founder of the chic and affordable fragrance brand, Floral Street. Feeney's mission for the brand is, "to bring fine fragrance to the modern woman – so that she might build an entire fragrance wardrobe which can express the many facets of who she is." Now, Feeney has shared expertise on the perfect dinner-party scents, to ensure you smell chic and expensive for your next event...

Mona Kattan celebrates the launch of Kayali Yum Pistachio Gelato | 33 on April 13, 2023 in Los Angeles, California.
Mona Kattan

Mona Kattan is the co-founder of Huda Beauty and Kayali Fragrances - which as a brand, has reached viral status across social media for their luxe scents.  Now, Mona has shared her expertise on what makes a chic and elegant dinner party scent, having curated her very own lineup of best-selling perfumes.

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Ciello Tuazon

Ciello Tuazon is the Senior Director of Global Product Innovation at MALIN+GOETZ, which is a cult-favourite skincare and perfume brand, inspired by modern city living and the need to uncomplicate our beauty routines. MALIN+GOETZ is known for their chic and artisan scents, with Tuazon sharing some expertise on exactly what constitutes a sophisticated fragrance...

Rich, spicy and woody scents, along with delicate floral perfumes, for instance, are often synonymous with expense but often, it's also the feeling your chosen scent creates that's key, as the experts explain.

  • A lingering impression: Ciello Tuazon, MALIN+GOETZ Senior Director of Global Product Innovation says that first and foremost, the scent needs to compliment you and the feeling you're looking to emulate for your evening. "It should be unassuming and leave a lingering sillage with room for the imagination, yet have an olfactive signature."
  • Warm & complex aromas: Tuazon recommends warm notes of amber and cedarwood, with hints of bright bergamot and pepper, to "bring a complex dynamic."
  • Hints of gourmand: If you're not a lover of spicy and woody scents, Kayali's own Mona Kattan recommends something a touch sweeter. "Fragrance is truly personal, but my preference is to go for a slightly fresher note, such as a floral or gourmand-based fragrance. Kattan also recommends scents like Invite Only Amber as "it’s a gourmand, decadent, and delectable juice, you can almost taste the smell!"
  • Whatever makes you feel chic: At the end of the day, it's important to remember that perfume relies heavily on personal preferences, as Kattan notes: "To me, perfume is about emotions and creating a feeling. Chic is a mood, so wear a scent that makes you feel sophisticated and elegant."

What are the best festive perfume notes?

If you're looking for an especially festive feel, what with party season now upon us, the experts have also shared their criteria for a positively sparkling scent:

  • Leather
  • Rum
  • Black pepper
  • Citrus
  • Nuts
  • Fruits
  • Neroli

Tuazon suggests notes of leather, rum and black pepper, "that spark intrigue and conversation of a place you’ve been to or a grounding memory worth revisiting" - like MALIN+GOETZ's dark rum.

Floral Street's Michelle Feeney on the other hand says to "go for something citrussy, but with a warm, nutty interior to create a festive mood. I love Floral Street Sweet Almond Blossom Eau De Parfum for this, with pomelo, mandarin, tonka bean and vanilla to blend fruity notes with nuttiness." YSL's Libre is also a great option, as it features bursts of tangerine and neroli, with a sweet and creamy vanilla dry down.

Naomi Jamieson
Digital Beauty Writer

Naomi is a Digital Beauty Writer from woman&home, where she covers everything from skincare to fragrance but specialises, particularly, in makeup and nail trends. Through her work, Naomi gets to share her trend expertise and share her own shopping recommendations and product reviews. Previously, she worked as a Lifestyle News Writer for My Imperfect Life magazine, where she used her savvy for TikTok to bring readers the latest beauty buzzwords, fashion movements and must-have products. 

Before that, Naomi split her time between both GoodTo and My Imperfect Life, whilst training for her Gold Standard diploma in Journalism with the NCTJ, for which she earned a Distinction. Interestingly though, Naomi actually has a background in design, having studied illustration at Plymouth University but leapt into the media world in 2020, after always having a passion for writing. Now, when she isn’t reporting on the best perfumes and latest beauty releases, you can find her drinking copious cups of coffee, drawing and probably online shopping...