Cameron Diaz shares heartfelt fears about having a baby in her 50s: 'The pressure is for me to live to 107'

The actress offers rare insight into how she feels about having her children in her late 40s and early 50s

Cameron Diaz attends the world premiere of Apple's "Outcome" at AMC Lincoln Square Theatre
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Cameron Diaz welcomed her first child, daughter Raddix, at the age of 47. She later welcomed son Cardinal when she was 51-years-old, after reportedly experiencing fertility struggles in the years before the arrival of her babies.

The actress took a hiatus from acting to prioritise her family when her children were born, to spend more time with them and with her husband, Good Charlotte star Benji Madden.

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"I love being a mother. It’s the best, best, best part of my life," she tells OK! magazine.

Cameron Diaz and Benji Madden attend the Michael Rubin REFORM Alliance Casino Night Event

(Image credit: Arturo Holmes/Getty Images for REFORM Alliance)

Candidly, the star shares, "The women who have children my age are literally 20 years younger and that’s an interesting place to be because I’m not that age," adding, "And that’s totally OK - but I want to feel vital like that for my child."

Speaking about how well she copes as an older mother, Cameron reveals, "I’m just trying to stay alive just like every other mother. I’m just trying to keep it going."

Once appearing on Gwyneth Paltrow's GOOP podcast, the actress reveals how her career break also changed how she felt about ageing - something she previously feared.

Now feeling "excited" for the coming decades, she says, "I think you have this amazing moment in your 40s where you appreciate who your parents are, and I want to have that moment." She wants to experience that same feeling when her children are in their 40s and she might be in her 90s.

Cameron believes that her own opinion of how she looks and feels will influence her acceptance of getting older. "As is true for most people, I think how I look and feel is some combination of what I do and what I don't do," she explains.

She might be "the oldest mom in my group of girlfriends with kids," but the star remains grateful for all the support she has while raising them.

Before her son Cardinal was born, she once said, "I'm lucky to be my age, lucky to have those girlfriends, lucky to have my daughter, lucky to have all the support I do raising her."

Lucy Wigley
Entertainment Writer

Lucy is a multi-award nominated writer and blogger with seven years’ experience writing about entertainment, parenting and family life. Lucy worked as a freelance writer and journalist at the likes of PS and moms.com, before joining GoodtoKnow as an entertainment writer, and then as news editor. The pull to return to the world of television was strong, and she was delighted to take a position at woman&home to once again watch the best shows out there, and tell you why you should watch them too.

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