Prue Leith on 'odd' feeling of 'fancying' someone new as a widow as she talks finding love again at 70

Prue didn't expect to find love again - but things changed when she met John

Prue Leith attends The RHS Chelsea Flower Show at Royal Hospital Chelsea on May 20, 2024 in London, England. All the main garden categories return to the Royal Hospital Chelsea this year. The Show Gardens along Main Avenue, Sanctuary and Feature Gardens explore themes through horticulture, while the All About Plants area in the Floral Marquee focuses on planting. This year is billed as the most sustainable to date. (Photo by Jeff Spicer/Getty Images)
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Prue Leith has opened up on the moment she realised she was interested in someone new after years as a widow.

Appearing on Fearne Cotton's Happy Place podcast, the Great British Bake Off judge recalled how in the years that followed the death of her first husband, Rayne, she hadn't felt interested in any other men. Until she met John in 2011.

"When I met John, I had been a widow for eight years, and I hadn’t ever felt any pangs or looked at somebody and thought 'Oh yeah, I fancy you'," she told Fearne.

Prue Leith and John Playfair attend the National Portrait Gallery's reopening in front of "The Doors" (2023), a new commission by Tracey Emin CBE RA, on June 20, 2023 in London, England. The 45 portraits of women that feature on the new doors were commissioned especially for the Gallery's new entrance as part of its major transformation. (Photo by Dave Benett/Getty Images for The National Portrait Gallery)

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Prue added, "And then I met John and I thought this is very odd, I actually am interested in that chap."

John and Prue have now been married for almost a decade - but the culinary star had concerns that her age might push John away at first.

She explained, "I realised that he is much younger than me. I think he was 64 and I was 70. I was giving a talk in a church, which would be used as a venue for literary festivals. And I knew he was going to turn up to it.

"So I thought well, I'd better put my cards on the table right now because I don’t want to get into any kind of relationship with this guy if he’s going to walk away the minute he discovers that I’m much older than him."

But the pair's age difference didn't hinder their love story, with Prue declaring that John "stuck around" after she clarified how old she was.

: John Playfair and Prue Leith with Pimm's, an Official Partner of Wimbledon, at All England Lawn Tennis and Croquet Club on July 11, 2025 in London, England. (Photo by Antony Jones/Getty Images for Pimm's)

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Prue has previously opened up on the devastating grief that she dealt with after the death of Rayne in 2002.

Speaking on the Dinner On Me podcast last year, Prue recalled how the late Queen Elizabeth II opening up about the loss of her own husband, Prince Philip, reminded her of the power and poignancy that grief carries.

"When the old Queen was talking about loss, I think she was talking about Prince Philip‘s death, she said, ‘Grief is the price you pay for love,'” Leith told Jesse Tyler Ferguson.

"And it’s the very exact price. If you love somebody a lot, the grief is horrific."

Caitlin Elliott
News Editor

Caitlin is News Editor for woman&home, covering all things royal, celeb, fashion, beauty and lifestyle. Caitlin started on local papers and titles such as Cosmopolitan, Now, Reveal and Take a Break while studying for her Multimedia Journalism degree. She also worked in Fashion PR as a Press Assistant for Arcadia's Topshop before becoming a part of the Now team. Caitlin went on to add the likes of Woman, GoodtoKnow, WhatToWatch and woman&home to her writing repertoire before moving on to her current role. 

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