The royal family feud will need 'more than one holiday celebration' to mend bridges, claims expert

The royal family feud will need 'more than one holiday celebration' to mend bridges, claims expert

The Prince and Princess of Wales and the Duke and Duchess of Sussex at the Remembrance Sunday and the Centenary of the Armistice.
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While there was speculation all members of the royal family could reunite over Christmas it did not come to fruition, as Charles and Queen Camilla were joined by William, Kate Middleton and their three children on 25 December to attend Christmas Morning Service at Sandringham Church in Norfolk, while Meghan and Harry stayed in California with their two children Archie and Lilibet. 

This may come as no real surprise for some as Harry and Meghan have not returned to the UK for Christmas with the royal family since 2018 - two years before they quit the royal family and left their royal duties behind. 

As rumours of a divide in the family continue a relationship expert believes a one-off family gathering over Christmas would not have been sufficient to fix those fractured relationships, especially after the recent release of Omid Scobie's book Endgame

King Charles III, Queen Camilla, Catherine, Princess of Wales, Prince George of Wales, Prince William, Prince of Wales andMia Tindall attend the Christmas Morning Service at Sandringham Church on December 25, 2023 in Sandringham, Norfolk.

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Endgame: Inside the Royal Family and the Monarchy’s Fight for Survival by Omid Scobie, £11 at Amazon

Endgame: Inside the Royal Family and the Monarchy’s Fight for Survival by Omid Scobie, £11 at Amazon

Omid Scobie's Endgame delves into the world of the Royal Family, analysing what they must do to survive and exploring their current state. He focuses on the King, Queen, Prince and Princess of Wales and the Duke and Duchess of Sussex and shares shocking revelations.

Speaking to The Mirror, Louella Alderson said, "With the recent media attention Meghan, Harry and the Royal Family have been receiving with the release of the book, it would be surprising if either side of the family would want to spend Christmas together.

"It's a time for families to come together and celebrate, but with tension and hurt feelings still present, it may not be the best environment for reconciliation. While this continues, it would be unlikely that Meghan, Harry and the Royal Family would be ready to reconcile or celebrate together."

Catherine, Princess of Wales, Prince William, Prince of Wales, Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex, and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex on the long Walk at Windsor Castle arrive to view flowers and tributes to HM Queen Elizabeth on September 10, 2022 in Windsor, England. Crowds have gathered and tributes left at the gates of Windsor Castle to Queen Elizabeth II, who died at Balmoral Castle on 8 September, 2022.

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While the book release may have heightened tensions, Louella also believes a one-off family get together to resolve years of upset would be "impossible", and a truce should not be rushed. 

The So Syncd dating app co-founder continued, "Resolving potential tensions would likely take much more than just one-holiday celebration.

"It would require open and honest communication, understanding, and empathy from both sides. It's not impossible for tensions to ease and for relationships to heal over time if both parties are willing to put in effort and work towards mending their relationship.

"Rushing something like this for the sake of appearances or to appease the media wouldn't be beneficial in the long run. The relationship only appears to be getting more strained as time goes on, so it's important for everyone involved to take the time they need to heal and address any underlying issues before attempting to reconcile, let alone celebrate holidays together."