The secrets of the Queen and Philip’s 72 year marriage

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  • The Queen's marriage to Prince Phillip is the longest of any British Sovereign, so what are the secrets behind their reunion?

      • Living separately for some time has helped the Royal duo have a stronger bond

      • Sharing a love of travel and adventure to bring joy to those experiences

      • The Duke’s sense of humour has helped see the fun side of life

    First meeting

    Elizabeth and Philip first met back in 1934 at the wedding of Princess Marina of Greece and Denmark (Philip’s cousin) and Prince George, Duke of Kent (Elizabeth’s uncle). Elizabeth was just eight years old at the time. Five years later when Elizabeth was 13 and Philip was 18 the couple met again at the Royal Naval College in Dartmouth. It was there, reportedly, that they experienced the first sparks of a romance and began exchanging letters.

    The proposal

    Philip proposed to Elizabeth at the Royal family’s Balmoral Estate in the summer of 1946 with a three-carat round diamond ring – with the diamonds coming from a tiara that belonged to his mother, Princess Alice of Battenberg. The couple’s engagement was initially kept secret, and the official announcement was delayed until July 1947. This was reportedly at the behest of Elizabeth’s father, King George VI, who said he wouldn’t give his blessing until his daughter turned 21.

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    🐶🐴🐈Today we are marking National Pet Month. The nation's pets have kept us company during lockdown, and have joined our daily walks! The first Royal corgis – Dookie & Jane – joined the Royal Family in 1933, when King George VI gave them to his daughters, Princess Elizabeth (now The Queen) and Princess Margaret. On her 18th birthday, Princess Elizabeth was given her very own Corgi named Susan, and has owned more than 30 corgis and dorgis since. Her Majesty’s love of horses has remained with her throughout her life. Here, she is pictured with her pony 'Peggy' at the age of six. Today, she still rides horses and takes a great interest in the horses which she breeds and owns for racing. Slide ▶️ to enjoy some photos of The Queen and her much loved pets. #nationalpetmonth

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    The wedding

    Princess Elizabeth became the 10th member of the Royal family to be married at Westminster Abbey, when she and Philip – who was made Duke of Edinburgh on the morning of the wedding – tied the knot on 20 November 1947. But their wedding didn’t pass without incident as Elizabeth’s tiara broke while she was getting ready and had to be hastily repaired.

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    ✈️🎖The Queen, Honorary Air Commodore visited @rafmarham in Norfolk today. The Royal Family have long supported the air base. Swipe ➡️ to see a photograph of Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother visiting personnel in 1988. RAF Marham is a military airbase, with over 3600 working personnel. The airbase provides engineering support across the RAF and is home to the F-35B Lightning, a military aircraft. The Queen visited the Integrated Training Centre, which provides future pilots with thorough training and enables them to qualify as a Lightning Plane pilot. Her Majesty watched a demonstration of simulation-based training. This special training enables new pilots to practice flying planes without being in the air.

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    Time to celebrate

    As the longest-reigning British monarch in history, the Queen has celebrated a number of jubilees – Silver in 1977, Golden in 2002, Diamond in 2012 and Sapphire in 2017. And Prince Philip has been by the Queen’s side throughout. ‘He has been a constant strength and guide,’ she said.

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    “I shall never forget the scene outside Buckingham Palace on Jubilee Day. The cheerful crowd was symbolic of the hundreds of thousands of people who greeted us wherever we went in this Jubilee Year – in twelve Commonwealth countries and thirty-six counties in the United Kingdom… God bless you and a very happy Christmas to you all.” . This quote is taken from the 1977 Christmas Broadcast. #ARoyalChristmas Swipe to see images from the 7th June 1977, Jubilee Day, when a special service of thanksgiving was held at St Paul's Cathedral. Planning for the Christmas Broadcast begins months in advance, when The Queen decides on the themes she wishes to address. The broadcast has been, and remains, the Monarch’s own personal message to the nation and Commonwealth. Her Majesty’s speech from 1977 can be found in full on our website, linked in our story! . 📸 Press Association

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    Becoming Queen

    Less than five years into their marriage, Elizabeth, aged 25, received the news of her father’s death and instantly ascended to the throne as Queen Elizabeth II. Her coronation took place just over one year later on 2 June 1953. Her husband, Philip, was forced to swear allegiance to the new Queen.

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    Four generations of The Royal Family have come together to support The Royal British Legion's 'Together at Christmas' initiative. The Queen, The Prince of Wales, The Duke of Cambridge and Prince George, joined forces to prepare special Royal British Legion Christmas puddings at Buckingham Palace this week. The Queen is Patron of The Royal British Legion and the puddings will become the centerpieces of next year's "Together at Christmas" get-togethers, hosted by the charity. The Queen and Their Royal Highnesses were joined by The Royal British Legion’s care home chef Alex Cavaliere and four veterans – Colin Hughes, Liam Young, Lisa Evans and Barbara Hurman. 📷 Chris Jackson / Getty Images @RoyalBritishLegion

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    Becoming grandparents

    The Royal brood is forever expanding and the Queen and Prince Philip now have eight grandchildren and eight great-grandchildren. While the rest of the world knows Elizabeth as ‘the Queen’ or ‘Her Majesty’, the likes of Prince George and Mia Tindall simply call her ‘Gan-Gan.’

    The joy of parenthood

    It wasn’t long after the pair became husband and wife that they produced an heir to the throne. Prince Charles, their first child, was born in 1948 – just a year after their wedding. Princess Anne was born two years later in 1950. The couple waited a decade before having two more children – Prince Andrew in 1960 and Prince Edward in 1964.

    Absence makes the heart grow fonder…

    …So the old saying goes, and that could be true for these two as Prince Philip’s cousin revealed they sleep in separate beds. Lady Pamela Hicks said, ‘In England, the upper class always have had separate bedrooms. You don’t want to be bothered with snoring or someone flinging a leg around. Then when you are feeling cosy, you share your room sometimes.’ Since the Duke retired in 2017, the couple have largely lived separately – with Prince Philip residing at Wood Farm on the Sandringham Estate while the Queen spends weekdays at Buckingham Palace. However since the COVID-19 outbreak the couple have been self-isolating together at Windsor.

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    🟡 Watch as historic nineteenth-century wallpaper from the Yellow Drawing Room is carefully taken away for conservation. Not only will this work restore the rare, fragile wallpaper, but it will simultaneously protect it from incurring damage from nearby construction work as part of the Reservicing programme. Once the works are complete, the restored wallpaper will return to its home in the Yellow Drawing Room. The Reservicing programme is vital in order to mitigate the risk of fire and flood and will ensure that old wiring is brought in line with current health and safety standards. The refurbishment will also improve visitor access and make the Palace more energy efficient. Designed by Edward Blore in the 1840s, the East Wing of Buckingham Palace was built for Queen Victoria to provide more entertaining and living space for her expanding family. Blore’s design included the famous central balcony on the front façade of the Palace, which was incorporated at Prince Albert’s suggestion. Since then it has been used on many national occasions, including annually at Trooping the Colour.

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    A love of adventure

    Before Elizabeth became Queen, the couple held a royal residence in Malta – where Prince Philip was stationed as a young officer in the Royal Navy – between 1949 and 1951, The couple loved life on the Mediterranean island and Malta is thought to be Her Majesty’s favourite country. In fact, the Queen is one the most well-travelled monarchs in the world, having visited more than 100 countries – often with Philip right by her side.

    Overcoming hurdles together

    In the 72 years they’ve been married, Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip have had their fair share of difficult times together. As well as surviving 1992 – which the Queen described as her ‘annus horribilis’ because of marriage breakdowns, family scandals and a fire at Windsor Castle – the couple have faced a number of close family bereavements, including the deaths of Diana, Princess of Wales in 1997 and the Queen Mother and Princess Margaret in 2002.

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    ‘Keeping Norfolk’s feet dry’ is how staff at Wolferton’s Pumping Station describe their work. Today, The Queen opened a newly rebuilt facility 72 years after her father, King George VI, opened the original station on 2nd February 1948. The Station sits within the Sandringham Estate, home to Sandringham House – the private residence of The Queen and the Royal Family. King George VI opened the pumping station shortly after WWII, to enable the surrounding marshland, which sits below sea level, to be drained, dried out and farmed. Her Majesty toured the new station, which has been rebuilt over the past 18 months to create a more environmentally friendly facility to better protect its local wildlife, including nesting birds on the neighbouring marshes.

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    Ultimately, Prince Philip gave up his career in the navy to devote his life to royal duty – yet according to Richard Fitzwilliams, his position as consort is ‘far from the role he would have chosen.’ But despite describing himself as a ‘refugee husband,’ he has always supported Her Majesty over the years. His ‘practical’ nature has meant that the Queen ‘has always known she could rely on his advice,’ and his hard-working nature saw him carry out 22,219 solo public engagements before retiring in 2017. What a team!

    A sense of humour

    Prince Philip is well known for his wicked sense of humour, which has no doubt kept his wife laughing all these years. In fact, when Philip was caught speeding through Central London on the day of his wedding rehearsal on 19 November 1947, he reportedly told the policeman, ‘I’m sorry, officer, but I’ve got an appointment with the Archbishop of Canterbury.’ Having attended so many Royal engagements alongside the Queen over the years, Philip also once famously described himself as ‘the world’s most experienced plaque unveiler.’

    Opposites attract

    Royal expert Richard Fitzwilliams has claimed that Philip and Elizabeth are like chalk and cheese, that while Philip is a ‘moderniser’ the Queen is ‘resistant to change’. But opposites clearly attract. ‘This was a marriage between temperamental opposites, which has been notable, not just for its longevity, but for the marvellous mutual supportiveness that has characterised,’ he said.

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