'This woman… My God' - Prince Harry's response to seeing Meghan for the first time before they’d even had their first date

The Sussexes' love story started in a rather unconventional way for the royals - and had Harry 'texting like a teenager'

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle smile and look at each other during an official photocall to announce their engagement at The Sunken Gardens, Kensington Palace on November 27, 2017
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Prince Harry has taken a very different path in life to his big brother Prince William and this also applies to how he first met his wife. There was no friendship-turned-romance at university to bring the Sussexes together like Kate and William. Instead, Harry hadn’t even met Meghan, let alone asked her on a date, when he first laid eyes on her.

Writing in his best-selling memoir, Spare, the King’s younger son recounted how he came across a video of a mystery woman whilst scrolling through Instagram in 2016. This woman was, of course, Meghan Markle and she was in the clip with Harry’s friend Violet von Westenholz.

Meghan, Duchess of Sussex and Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex attend the Wheelchair Curling on day one of the 2025 Invictus Games

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Recounting his life in his own words, Prince Harry shares fascinating insights and revelations about being a member of the Royal Family. This best-seller reflects upon everything from the loss of Princess Diana to Prince Harry's romance with Meghan Markle.

His mesmerised reaction to seeing his now-wife led him to watch the video "several times", adding that he’d "never seen anyone so beautiful".

"She believed life was one grand adventure. I could see that. What a privilege it would be, I thought to join her on that journey. In that moment I felt there might be only one face for me," the Duke of Sussex declared.

Meghan has since described her and Harry’s romance as a "modern fairytale" and it’s hard to argue that this chance glimpse and the meeting that followed sound like they’ve sprung from the pages of a love story. With hindsight, the Prince’s response to seeing Meghan made what happened next almost inevitable.

He described sending Violet a message asking to be introduced to Meghan and she obliged.

Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex visit the British High Commissioner's residence to attend an afternoon reception to celebrate the UK and South Africa’s important business and investment relationship

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Before long, the royal and the Suits star had connected, exchanged numbers and were exchanging so many messages that Harry felt he was "texting like a teenager". The Duke of Sussex said as much when he reflected on a visit to the home of entrepreneur Sir Keith Mills.

He said he was texting Meghan "throughout the long drive and up the stairs into his guestroom" where he "locked the door and remained holed up".

Harry wrote, "I sat on my bed texting like a teenager until it was time to have dinner with Sir Keith and his family. Then, after dessert, I quickly returned to the guestroom and resumed texting."

Texting turned into a date at exclusive members’ club, Soho House, and from there the romance blossomed, leading to them enjoying a week-long trip to Botswana on what was technically their third date.

Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex kisses Meghan, Duchess of Sussex as they leave from the West Door of St George's Chapel, Windsor Castle on their wedding day in 2018

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Within a little over a year, the couple were announcing their engagement. The news is said to have prompted Prince Philip’s harsh warning to his grandson and concern from William about the speed things were going, though Harry and Meghan happily tied the knot in May 2028.

Royal author Robert Jobson has suggested in his book, The Windsor Legacy, that King Charles was delighted about his son’s new relationship but by the time they got engaged, was a little more "restrained".

"Charles initially thought Meghan was good for Harry," he declares. "She pressed all the right buttons, said the right things. He liked her, as did Camilla. But by the time of the engagement announcement, his enthusiasm seemed to have waned. When staff offered their congratulations, his response was notably restrained."

Emma is a Royal Editor with eight years experience working in publishing. She specialises in the British Royal Family, ranging from protocol to outfits. Alongside putting her royal knowledge to good use, Emma knows all there is to know about the latest TV shows on the BBC, ITV and more. When she’s not writing about the latest royal outing or unmissable show to add to your to-watch list, Emma enjoys cooking, long walks and watching yet more crime dramas!

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