Kathy Burke shares the unforgettable moment fate brought her and a stranger together

'It was like the universe stepped in,' she says

Kathy Burke seen leaving BBC TV Studios after appearing on The One Show
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Kathy Burke is one of the nation's most well-known actresses. Able to switch easily between comedy and serious drama, she is well known for bringing the laughs in the likes of Harry Enfield & Chums, Absolutely Fabulous, and Gimme Gimme Gimme.

Her gritty performance in Nil By Mouth, and most recently in the Saoirse Ronan-led film Blitz, are also so memorable, they keep Kathy's name at the forefront of viewers' memories.

Immediately, Kathy invited the man inside her house for a chat. Initially reluctant, he did agree to a cup of tea and a conversation eventually.

Asking if he had children, Kathy then revealed to him, "My mum died when I was a baby," and he appeared to understand that she could relate to his experience on some level.

Kathy's mother, Bridget, passed away from stomach cancer when she was just 18 months old. "He just came in for an hour or so," she says of what happened after they'd both connected over their losses.

The man told Kathy that his sister had taken his children, insisting he have a break and get some time to himself. However, he'd been apprehensive about being away from them at such a difficult time.

But Kathy had some reassurance for him. She told him, "Take it from someone with experience, have a little break."

"Give your kids a break because they need a break from you as well. They need to be properly sad without thinking, 'Our sadness is going to upset daddy.' So spend a bit of time apart," she told the cab driver at the time.

"I hope he took my advice. I've never seen him again," she told Romesh. "It was like the universe stepped in," Kathy says of the chance encounter that left a big impact.

Lucy Wigley
Entertainment Writer

Lucy is a multi-award nominated writer and blogger with seven years’ experience writing about entertainment, parenting and family life. Lucy worked as a freelance writer and journalist at the likes of PS and moms.com, before joining GoodtoKnow as an entertainment writer, and then as news editor. The pull to return to the world of television was strong, and she was delighted to take a position at woman&home to once again watch the best shows out there, and tell you why you should watch them too.

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