I am at the end of my tether and I don't know what to do. I walked away from my physical and mentally abusive marriage 11 years ago with three young children and bin bags. He has never paid maintenance, always wins whenever I have got solicitors involved and still tries to control my life.
My children are now 16, and 15 year old twins. They spent half their time with their father, apart from times when he would blow up and literally dump them on my doorstep. (I was always happy to have them and wanted them full time) Last August their father totally rejected them and had nothing to do with them until Christmas, when they wanted to see their grandma who lives with him. Since then my son has been in contact with him and my girls don't want to have anything to do with him.
I have told him that since the children have phones, laptops he can contact them directly, there is no need for him to contact me, as when he does he is always abusive. Over the last couple of weeks he has got involved with my sons girlfriend problems, and has sent me texts, phoned me and turned up on my doorstep. On all occasions he has been drunk as the messages make no sense, he says horrible things about my partner as well. He even gets his mother who is scared of him to drive him to my door so that he can abuse me. I ordered him off my property and said I had nothing to say to him but he took no notice and said I was evil.
What can I do to stop this. I hate the fact he can infiltrate my life whenever he pleases, with abuse. I would love to get an injunction against him contacting me in any way, but can I do this whilst my twins are only 15. Any advice would be gratefully received. Thanks
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