hi there everyone....i need some advice!! OH and are have been having some problems, and he says he feels like we have grown apart and are more like friends! We are currently trying to stay together...i have given him chances to leave, even packed his stuff, and he's still here, so i have to believe he wants to stay!!
We have been getting on better the last week, and i know that it isnt' going to happen overnight, but I could really do with some suggestions of things to do that can make him realise what we have is worth fighting for!!
I don't want obvious stuff that piles the pressure on, like "go out for dinner together", i want know if its best for us to spend MORE time together, or LESS time together!? should i be the perfect wife? or should i let him do his own stuff!!!
at the moment i'm waivering between happy and depressed!!!  and i don't want to keep having the conversation with him!!!
i'm constantly trying to pretend that everything is alright, especially in front of the children and our friends! and its really hard, and draining!!
Any advice will be gratefully received ....
thanks
ziggy
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