Alison, Although it doesn't feel like it at the moment, you can and will get through this.
Of course your breakup hurts and it hurts like hell, for a while you are going through a grieving process, and must give yourself time to adapt. Sometimes it takes weeks,sometimes months and sometimes years, but adapt you will.
Like you I have been put aside, more times that once, and the first I was days,almost hours from the altar. I thought my world had fallen apart and to me it had, but, the love of my family,friends and other relations helped me through it all and 28 years have now passed by.
It was nine years before I met my now husband who truely is the love of my life, yet it was to be another nine years before I would agree to marry him,so deep was the hurt and scars. Yet, now I wish, oh how I wish, that I had had the courage to agree a lot lot earlier.
Sadly,I did not have the benefit of having a forum where I could talk to total strangers, and they would help and support me as the girls on the forums do today.
So, when and if you feel the time is right for you, just come and talk about it, for there is many a listening ear, that will reach back out to you through the various keyboards and give you the support that you need like any other human being going through this sad process.
Wishing you well, and strength in the days ahead.
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Annemari xx
 The Three Musketeers were together again at Cardiff. Summer, ChattyCathy and my 'Mum' Auntie Annemari"
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