I have beeen a victim of this myself. Take the excellent advice and also remember that no matter how far away he is he can still make you feel vulnerable , so cut all contact, absolutley no contact at all.Keep your children safe and dont tell them anything unless it gets back to him. NSPCCWomans aid, etc.PLEASE DONT TAKE HIM BACK EVER.EVEN IF HE PLEADS WITH YOU AND WILL BE GOOD AGAIN.DONT .I am with you all the time like evryone else.xxxxxx