my husband has always had a nasty temper over the years he has broken things in anger at me or shouted and screamed so much children have cried...am a strong person but the last year has been hard he contantly moans then when he doe not like something shouts and swears in front of our 5 year old who crys and tell him to stop few days ago all came to a head and he grab me in temper and my daughter and 15 year old son saw him and my son shouted at him and he went for him and hit him several times ..and then my eldest came to visit and told him to go..now he is 130miles away with his mum and i dont know what to do ! i love him but cant put up with this no longer please if anyone can offer advice or a friendly message please do am 42 and feel so alone was i that bad i wife?