Hi ifdanny, you sound so sad and lonely!! I am sure you arent' invisible, you certainly arent on this forum. We hear you loud and clear!! Its rotten to feel the way you do but I think annmari has said it all hasnt she?? I am in the next stage to you, children are long gone, now its the grandchildren who are starting and finishing school!! A big welcome to the forum from me and I hope to talk to you online. As time goes on you will find this fills up a lot of your time and is very addictive!!!! Hope you feel better soon.........June xx