Well done, Twinkle, for not gaining. Keep up the good work.
gilley, I think you're right in that this year there is a difference in the way we are thinking. We're not just worrying about it, we're doing something about it, and as blossom says, there's no need to beat ourselves up.
Alex, if you're doing more entertaining, let us know and we'll all come round yours for a party !!