My sister was an alcoholic for many years. It destroyed her marriage, relationships with her children, famliy and friends. She did dry out successfully, for about 18months,but unfortunately when she tried to mend bridges with her children, they did not want to know, and her drinking spiralled out of control.When I asked her why she did this to herself, she just replied"I like to drink". You cannot stop someone who is hellbent on destroying themselves. In the end I looked after her. Nursed her 24hours, but eventually she had to go into a nursing home because I couldnt physically cope anymore. I think towards the end she did regret her choices, but they were hers to make. And I was always ther for her to come to. Sorry If this is not what you or your friend want to hear, but unfortunately this is the reality with addicts. On a practical level your friend can talk to her G.P. A.A are very supportive for family. Al.Anon. good for children, Mental Health Team. Need referral I think from G.P.Good luck.But all you can do is to be a good friend and let her talk to you,My friends were great, and also my OH.
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