Emilykate I just had to write to send you lots of love and hugs. I've been divorced for about 20yrs now and I remember back to those dark times waking up at 3am to stark reality, no house, no job, no money or savings, new surroundings - wondering how I would come through it. I was on my own with 2 small children and no family nearby. What pulled me through was support from other women who had been in the same situation- I will never forget them. I hope that the support you are getting on the forum helps in some way((x))