I had to read this thread, as I really hope that it is true because I am just starting to go through divorce proceedings myself. There are many girls on this forum that have been there and have come out the other side stronger and in many cases, with a better OH than the one they had. Although I can't imagine it at the moment, I hope that maybe one day, I can feel happy again.
Nowcemsi, thank you for starting this thread and giving me hope. I am just starting to come to realise that this is really happening.
Emilykate, please don't feel that you are being punished for the decision you made - it was what was right for you at the time and you did it for the right reasons.
Sending big hugs to everyone who finds themselves in a similar situation tonight.