Pat/Poppyc
I wasn't inferring that getting out is the easy option, but a number of the posts are telling Maire to get out which is not necessarily the only option. Young people of Maires daughters age are notoriously hyper and dramatic and many things and situations are blown out of control. I agree with those who advocate getting out of an abusive relationship, but these things are not black and white.
Distrupting a family is a very big step. I listened to my daughter and did get out initially, but as i said perviously we did get through it, but only because everyone concerned looked at themselves and worked on it.
Best regards
Jenny
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