Idon't know about divorcing in different countries, but when I separated from my husband, I went to see a solicitor who basically said that a separation agreement is worthless as it is not backed by the courts. She pointed out that although OH could agree to pay the mortgage etc now, there would be nothing I could do if he changed his mind further down the line. As someone else is involved, it probably wouldn't take much persuasion from her, before he reduces or stops your payments. Sorry to be negative but you need to think to the future and look after yourself. Don't worry about what he wants - he has made his choices
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