Two years ago I discovered my husband was having an affair with a woman I knew from before. We tried to make the marriage work but in March of this year I found a text from her to him, it was obvious that he had no intention of stopping the affair and I left the marriage. She has now moved out to Spain and is living with him, he didn't waste anytime. My problem is that we lived in Spain and I have now returned to the UK, I think in hindsight it was a wrong move, however I am now here. He wants to settle amicably but it is a fight every month to get my money, and he keeps moving the parameters of the separation agreement between us.
I am looking for advice from any other ladies out there who have had a similar experience is it easy to go for divorce being in separate countries? Is it better to settle amicably. It is very hard as I did not want our marriage to end but he admitted to being weak and she was extremely persistant.
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