I think so many women invest in relationships which men cannot adhere to. Despite everything we write about, I would love, for once, to hear a man's side of things. By that I mean his true feelings and not the reasons given by the wife. There is no disrespect here. I just feel that so often women give understanding and trust to men who really probably know they do not deserve it. How many men say what they say because of guilt and not because they mean it? What are they really thinking? When the universe ends we may probably find out.