Poppyfield, I'm sorry it didn't work out for you.
My husband left his job, his affair was with a woman abroad and his job was his only means of seeing her. He used to be glued to his phone, but since last year, he rarely even looks at it. Most of the time leaves it in a draw and forgets about it.
It was all so painful and difficult, for him as well, and he has vowed that he will never do it again. We have agreed that we are not saying we will stay together forever, or never fall in love with someone else - what we have now agreed is that if it does happen, then it will be dealt with honorably.
It's pretty awful, though, isn't it? Once they step out, you just never know if they will do it again.
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