Hi Belinda,Welcome to the Forum.
I do agree with the other girls,that at the moment your feelings are a bit raw to make such a massive decision. Have you tried thinking back as to why you married your husband in the first place,it may seem a strange thing to do but it has worked for me before;just getting out the wedding photographs and reliving my wedding day helps tremendously if OH and myself are going through a rough patch.Thankfully we don't have many but I can say that those we do have nearly always have a direct link to circumstances and not to how we actually truely feel about each other. Recently,a friend of mine lost her mother and turned to CRUSE for help,they really were very good at helping her to cope with her loss.She could so easily have slipped into a decline but with their help and support she overcame it and found the strength to deal with other problems as well. Have you got a good friend that you can talk to?,sometimes another person that you know well,will be a great shoulder and a good listener. Whatever you decide to do,I wish you the very best of luck. Take care of yourself and remember we are here for you as well. love annemari x
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