My second marriage - daughter 23 by first husband - who turned out to be gay - much to my present husbands delectation. So much has happened recently, and perhaps I am too emotional at the moment; my mum died suddenly 3 weeks ago and I am not coping well with that, husband retired 12 months ago and has been horrendous to live with since then - though not easy prior to that either - (he had a highpowered job - and also seems to suffer from OCD! I had an early menopause, starting about 3 years ago. Have no inclination for sex (causes problems there). I really feel I have no emotions, and cannot deal with his silent treatment towards me anymore. Should I just call it a day and be on my own - as then I have no aggravation? Any advice from you wise ladies would be much appreciated. I have suggested counselling to him, but he is not keen on that...