I have never been in your situation but I just don't think I could step back and wait. Obviously something is seriously wrong, I would just have to do something. Is there a support group for parents of teenagers with eating disorders? This could provide help and advice for both of you.
Good luck, keep posting, I am sure other forumers with more experience will be able to give you advice. Foxie
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