Hi Holly,
I get so angry when I hear of grandparents that do not want to take part in their granchildren's lives I cant understand them at all.
I am not a grandmother, but have always wanted to be, I dont mention it to often to my son as it wouldnt be fair, he has a girlfriend, but I dont really think he will ever have children in his life.
The least this lady could do would be to rally round and try to contribute something to make life easier for the family while your SIL is in hospital having serious surgery. I certainly dont blame you for ranting holly.
Plasmo x
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