Hi Bluebell35, have just got in and turned my laptop on, so sorry to hear about your dad, I know its hard but you must all keep positive, sounds like as its possibly on a small area that surgery will be the answer, nowadays cancer is not a death sentance, yes, something that has to be got through but if your all strong enough you will all including your dad come through this. We are all here for you as you know and above all have a great time tonight just enjoy yourself. x