My partner left me last year after having an affair, some 15 months later is he still with this woman. He is now wanting to introduce the children to her. I still feel so much hurt and pain towards her and the last thing I want is for my children to have contact with her. The childern are still quite young. Is it right to tell them, why I feel so against this meeting. The thought of them spending any time with her is too upsetting for words. I'm really torn, I don't want to cause my children anymore pain and suffering, but how will I cope when all my feelings are still so raw. I've tried talking to my ex, but he isn't interested.