Hi Mrs Ding, So sorry to hear your probs. I am no expert so this an 'off the wall' suggestion! If you can overcome your own'hump' could you try to give OH an example by giving him a token of your appreciation that you understand his stress at this time and give him a special treat in some way.....cook his favourite food....take him out for a meal or give him a surprise gift or something? This might make him realise how nice it is to be appreciated and begin to understand your feelings a little bit? You could give it a try anyway!
Good luck........Giving up is a very big step!
Mayday
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