I think maybe your son needs some space and time to think a bit. What he needs from you is lots of love and support right now, and I would just back off a bit and let him decide what to do. It's disappointing for you, but he may be on the wrong path altogether - he needs to make these decisions without feeing pressured, so I would try to be there for him to talk in a neutral way when he needs an ear. If you nag him or add to his stress it will make everything worse and drive him away. He probably feels very confused and low right now, so just bide your time and let him find his own way. It'll all turn out for the best in the end most likely! University isn't for everyone, and perhaps he's just coming to that realisation. It's not the end of the world.
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