Spanishlady
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Reged: 21/01/2008
Posts: 2417
Loc: Torrevieja Spain
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My sons fiance lost the baby she was carrying today , she was just starting on her eleveth week ,
they are both devestated and so am I ,
I wish I could be there to hug Collette as she does not have a Mammy , her m Mum died when she was 15, she has an older sister but I feel so far away from them.
She did not want to come to the phone and I understand that ,but I wish I xcould console her and my son in some way,
feeling shattered
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bookmad53
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Reged: 29/01/2009
Posts: 43
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So sorry spanish lady, how very sad for you all. I know it must be hard, and wanting to console them, they will be glad just to know you are there thinking of them.
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Rozie
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Reged: 25/04/2009
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Oh you poor darling I too suffered a miscarriage but then went on a year later to have my lovely son at the time it is shattering I was 16 weeks but then when my son was born a year later I realised I had to loose my baby to have him if you can understand that. My heart goes out to your daughter in law and your son (my husband suffered also). I am so so sorry but they will recover and hopefully have that beautiful baby in the near future. lots of big hugs xxxxxxx
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Splash123
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Reged: 04/05/2008
Posts: 4097
Loc: South Glamorgan
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Spanish lady ....my heart goes out to you ....it is so very hard when you are far away and you so much want to hold them in your arms......
Take care and sending you a big hug....
xx
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aec13cat
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Reged: 08/01/2009
Posts: 3111
Loc: N. Ireland
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Sorry to hear that very sad news. It must be so difficult for you not being near to them. Sending you a big hug and caring thoughts to your son and fiance.
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Constant
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Reged: 02/02/2009
Posts: 262
Loc: Northampton
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So sorry about your news, like the others I have had miscarriages. Three for me all turned out in the end. Perhaps you could right to your sons fiance I know its not the same as being there but it may help? You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
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BeauSoleil
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Reged: 26/03/2008
Posts: 3896
Loc: France
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Hi Spanish Lady, I have had several miscarriages and a still born and for me there was nothing anyone could say that would have been right. What I did find difficult though was when people didn't mention it at all. I felt then (I realise now how awkward it all was) that people were being incredibly insensitive by not mentioning it but of course some people think it's better not to dwell on it and find it really difficult for other reasons. Constant is right-perhaps you could write-not the same as a hug but she will always know you are thinking of her.
I have three healthy boys now!!
Hugs to you too as your hopes have gone too with her loss.
XX
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Vinca
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Reged: 19/10/2008
Posts: 2408
Loc: Kent
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What sad news Spanishlady, I am so sorry. Difficult time like this are so much harder when you family isn't near you, you must feel so helpless.
I remember when I miscarried for a while I blamed myself - I thought there must have been something I had done to cause it to happen. It made me also feel that other people would know it was my fault. Maybe your son's fiancee feels the same way and this is why she is unable to talk to you?
Thinking of you, your son and his fiancee.
from me.
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suziedee
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Reged: 21/05/2009
Posts: 559
Loc: Cumbria
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As Constant says write a note to them both, just expain that you are thinking of them and wish you could help.
You all have lost a child even though you never met him/her and you will go through the grieving process. It takes time.
I still think of the one I lost but also think it hapened for a reason as I went on to have 2 boys with no trouble.
Sometimes nature has a way of doing things for the best.
I am thinking of you all.
Suziedee
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