jayney45
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Reged: 21/10/2009
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hi dvberrycherry i too suffer with chronic back pain, i found a wonderul treatment for it called Bowen Therapy its fantastic and cured my back. give it a try .good luck!!
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chilla
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Reged: 05/09/2008
Posts: 6237
Loc: runcorn
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I'll second that for Bowen, though my back was nowhere near as bad as dbvc's.
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ChrissiFi
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Reged: 28/06/2006
Posts: 2621
Loc: Somerset
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Only married 4 years and looking to stray already? Are you expecting your husband to do all the running or have you really made an effort to keep the spark in your relationship? If you're absolutely certain it's not going to come back the fairest option would be for you to let your OH find happiness elsewhere as if you stray and he finds out he's going to be devastated (there are plenty of people on here who know how it feels to be cheated on and it's the pits!).
As for white pickett fence, no way! By the way I think your remark was uncalled for - maybe your choice of username was unfortunate (spam being something we all try to avoid ending up in our inbox) but you asked for advice and it was given. The suggestion to take yourself to a porn site might have been jokingly made but I'm wondering if it's an option for you - perhaps you can find a way of getting your needs fulfilled without straying? Ann Summers might be worth a look...
Edited by ChrissiFi (26/10/2009 13:16)
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JulieJ
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Reged: 29/12/2008
Posts: 559
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The suggestion to take yourself to a porn site might have been jokingly made
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No, I meant it seriously as I took the poster to be a non-genuine w and h poster - not just the name, but the weird way they posted about wanting men to take out their desire on her....
I'm afraid I still doubt the genuinicity!
Anyway, whether she's genuine or not, no one is going to tell her to go off and have sex outside marriage, so little point in asking us for any other advice.
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kate1
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Reged: 18/08/2008
Posts: 6862
Loc: Leicestershire
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I agree Julie,
I also thought it could be a man as the post didn't ring true in it's content.
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JulieJ
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Reged: 29/12/2008
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Glad I wasn't the only one!
Anyway, if she's real and genuine, and just has an unfortunate way of expressing herself, then obviously the best advice is what has already been given - make your mind up whether you want to make a go of your marriage (and don't have sex outside it), or give up on it and be single and fancy-free again.
Cakes can't be had and eaten, and that is what marriage makes you decide -
If the benefits of marriage aren't worth the downside (no more sex with anyone else),then quit.
Julie.
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jelliclecat
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Reged: 31/01/2009
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No, you're not the only one - I definitely don't believe this to be a genuine post.
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kafferlilly
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Reged: 26/04/2007
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Loc: NORTH WEST
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Have only just caught this 'cos Dizz was asking about something else on the 'Your Lives' index and some one mentioned about the 'pervy post...and as I was in 'need' of a laugh......well you have not failed me girls.....wonderful..
And I have learnt something to boot.....I want a white picket fence....
I thought it was something to do with a trade union...picketing the fence....!!!!
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MrsSmith
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Reged: 26/06/2009
Posts: 1436
Loc: Land of milk and honey
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Spamella, if you post is genuine why did you come here? why not just google "adultery" or something and I'm sure you'll find what you're obviously looking for.
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storky
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Reged: 27/07/2009
Posts: 123
Loc: South Lanarkshire Scotland
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Hi Ladies,
I dont think this post is genuine either. Funny "Spamella" hasnt joined in on any other posts and has been quiet on here for a while 
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buckup
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Reged: 08/04/2008
Posts: 157
Loc: whitstable Kent
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Spamella.........try straying with a visit to buy toys from Ann Summers.......It's less hurtful to husband.....and relieves the high sex drive.......husband might like it too........just a thought. (hope I didn't offend anyone)
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chattycathy
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Reged: 09/01/2008
Posts: 7856
Loc: Beside the seaside
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I always imagined myself having white picket fence but so far all have is an overgrown hedge!
Sorry I cant offer any advice on your personal needs Spamella as I believe you have to walk in a persons shoes first before your qualified to give advice...
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