anner06
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Reged: 18/03/2008
Posts: 819
Loc: Northamptonshire
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Hi, give him a couple of days, but if things don't sort themselves out, then feel free to PM me as I went through divorce 18 months ago - also a complete shock
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OL0212
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Reged: 04/01/2009
Posts: 154
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Hi Ladies
A little update, I cant get in touch with him and he has left his mobile at home. I haven't phoned him at work as I don't want to be embarrassed when they pretend he is busy.
So I thought bugger it, there isn't anything I can do and perhaps thats the point. I should stop trying so hard normally when we fight I'm the one that makes up and apologises well I'm not sorry for wanting to spend time with the man I love.
I'm his wife, his friend but i'm not his mother so s*d it. I though I'd take care of me, cooked a large lamb curry and rice. Got a huge glass of wine am running a hot bath with bubbles for ME. I have turned on the heated blankie, a good book and i'm going to get into bed and relax with wine and book.
So thanks for your advice.
Talk to you tomorrow.
Oxx
PS I'm not going to try and talk to him tonight and if he tries, i'm going to ask him to wait for a bit then we can talk. Thats if he comes home.
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Goingbackwards
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Reged: 22/08/2008
Posts: 2602
Loc: Isle of Wight
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Oh what a shock, well it seems to have been, but perhaps there was something that you felt wasnt quite right, From your update it seems that you have always put him first so I am so glad that you have now done something positive for you. Its not a one way thing a marriage and I am quite sure that the fights are not all your fault.
There are a lot of girls here with experience of these problems - let them help you and advise and support you. I hope things will be a little clearer in the monring.
Meanwhile big hugs for you.
xx
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OL0212
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Reged: 04/01/2009
Posts: 154
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I wanted to thank everyone for the PM's and their kind words.
I packed up his stuff late last night convinced that he wasn't coming home and was going to move out today but he suprised me by taking the day off saying he missed me and wanted to spend some time with me, i'm pleased to say the wedding ring is back on.
He knows we need to talk but i think he shocked himself more then me. Its been really nice and this was all i wanted, although I dont want to go through this again just to get a day off.
Im counting my blessings and enjoying his company.
I have also promised myself i will regularly have wine in the bath and go to bed early. It was really nice to have some peace.
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Twiddledout
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Reged: 17/11/2008
Posts: 1053
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I'm so pleased it worked out for you. They really are a different species these men aren't they?
It's good he was shocked, he needed it I suspect. Clearly you do have to talk it through but for now just enjoy being still.
Next time you have a bath treat yourself to REN's Moroccan Rose bath oil and take the whole bottle of wine with you 
Thanks for the update, it's so nice to hear updates. I was thinking about you today.
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