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xxxSummerxxx
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How do you think others see you ?
      #298297 - 06/01/2009 10:51

Either on the forum or when you first meet people face to face?


Im having to think about this one too,ok here goes...

I would people see me as Confident,Happy,Lively,Chatty,Interested in others,Attractive lady who wears bright colours! LOL

On the Forum i may well come accross as inqusitive,lively but deep at times and someone who doesn't have a life as i spend far tooooooo much time on here!! LOL

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skippy
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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: xxxSummerxxx]
      #298307 - 06/01/2009 10:59

Hi Summer - Im really not sure and its something I worry about. I think Im quite shy really but put on an out going persona. When Im with people I know well I can be funny and make them laugh - but i think it takes people time to see that side of me. Im quite a happy person really but I dont think this always shows on my face as i sometimes get the impression that people are nervous of me - I dont know why.

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chilla
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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: xxxSummerxxx]
      #298310 - 06/01/2009 11:01

One lady very kindly said she saw me as suited and booted in a business sense. Still laughing as I sit in my scruffy jeans and walking boots. Guess most see me as straightforward, but hopefully not rude. From what people say, i think they have me completely wrong on every other count though. I'm not some super businesswoman, nor super - confident, nor tough, nor interesting. I'm about as average as it's possible to be.

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PLASMO
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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: skippy]
      #298311 - 06/01/2009 11:03

Hi Summer and Skippy,

I would like to think they would just see me as someone who is friendly, but honest, that goes for in the real world, and on the forum.

Plasmo xx

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xxxSummerxxx
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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: PLASMO]
      #298314 - 06/01/2009 11:10

Plasmo,i see you as warm,funny and care about others but then i have met you.

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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: xxxSummerxxx]
      #298319 - 06/01/2009 11:15

Outgoing, affectionate, very friendly and a bubbly chatterbox!

My 19 year old daughter's friends call me a 'legend'!


Janine XXX

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chattycathy
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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: xxxSummerxxx]
      #298322 - 06/01/2009 11:16

Chatty & Scatty!

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chattycathy
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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: chattycathy]
      #298325 - 06/01/2009 11:17

Off Course I'm anything but!

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ChrissiFi
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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: chattycathy]
      #298330 - 06/01/2009 11:23

Think some people at work see me as a bit aloof, very confident and smartly dressed but it's really a front because I'm fairly shy and insecure underneath. Once I feel comfortable with people I'm more outgoing and can be too chatty. I'm generally a happy, positive person but OH says it doesn't always show on my face (I usually reply that I'd look very stupid if I went round with a constant grin!).

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xxxSummerxxx
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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: ChrissiFi]
      #298343 - 06/01/2009 11:37

Chatty you are one of the quietest people i know!

Chriss,I think so many people put a fromnt on at times including me,why o why do we worry eh !LOL

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jessie_1
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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: xxxSummerxxx]
      #298388 - 06/01/2009 12:21

Mummsy as all of my sons friends call me MUM.

I think of myself as shy and dumpy, dont know what anybody else sees me as.

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Shiraz
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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: jessie_1]
      #298395 - 06/01/2009 12:26

Jessie, I think that's a lovely compliment that your son's friends call you mum

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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: jessie_1]
      #298397 - 06/01/2009 12:27


O.K.Summer and others,Spill, I dare you? lol

Fear not for I am thick skinned.

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suzie88
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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: jessie_1]
      #298403 - 06/01/2009 12:30

I really don`t care and certainly don`t lose any sleep over it.
I am me and I don`t pretend to be anyone else.If people don`t like me thats up to them, I don`t like everyone I meet.
I don`t think you should go through life worrying what other people think, just get on and enjoy life and take all the opportunities that come your way.

Suzie88

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OzzieKez
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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: suzie88]
      #298415 - 06/01/2009 12:38

Excellent attitude Suzie!

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BEL
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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: OzzieKez]
      #298426 - 06/01/2009 12:44

Suzie,well said who cares life is toooo short to spend time
wandering what people think of you...to much introspection
on self is v negative.

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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: BEL]
      #298445 - 06/01/2009 12:59

Suzie..what a great attitude..I wish I worried less about what people thought of me.

Bel...you have just solved a dilema for me.I am going to a funeral and am pondering what to wear as the family have requested no black.I have a green coat but don't want to end up looking like a leprachaun.After reading your post I realise not one person will be looking at me and what I am wearing, we will be celebrating the life of a lovely friend.x

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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: blossom97]
      #298470 - 06/01/2009 13:17

Bel - that is such good advice: used to worry when I was younger, but now life is too short. Am pretty sure I come across as stroppy, militant and (ermmm) spikey was it!

Am really a pussy cat arn't I Bel!

That made me smile Chilla...


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chilla
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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: Mollymandy]
      #298477 - 06/01/2009 13:22

That made me smile Chilla...

we may disagree on some, not all, things Mollymandy, but at least you say what you think and defend your corner. I think if we ever meet, we'd probably get on very well.

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Re: How do you think others see you ? [Re: Mollymandy]
      #298481 - 06/01/2009 13:26

smart, a bit overweight, cheeky, fun, confident.

But I see me as:

Fat
Reasonably attractive for my age
Presentable
Lively
Prickly
No self esteem
Too sensitive
Withdrawn

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