LadyGodiva
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Reged: 19/09/2006
Posts: 292
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Today is one of those days when I wonder why I bothered - do you know the ones?
The most annoying 2 things about my OH are that I think he is domestically terminally lazy (although I accept of course that this might just be my perception) and that the slightest inconvenience especially if it involves the slightest signs of minor illness are treated like a life changing crisis.
2 endearing things I can't think of right now so I may have to come back to you on that one. I am sure they will come back to me after a nights sleep and a sunny morning.
Come on girls please let me know I am not alone in having the only non perfect OH
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Jane2008
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Reged: 08/01/2008
Posts: 2543
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Annoying: snores and leaves the loo seat up!
Endearing: generous and kind.
But some days I can't bear the sight of him, so I know what you mean! 
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Foxie
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Reged: 09/08/2007
Posts: 4017
Loc: South London
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Annoying - doesn't automatically replace the toilet roll and snores when he has too much to drink
Endearing - Always, always goes the extra mile to make me happy and still thinks I look the same as when we met (I was 16 years old then!!)
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In your journey through life, take what works for you and let the rest go. Susan Jeffers
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amelica2
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Reged: 21/07/2008
Posts: 1210
Loc: Beds.
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Annoying
1. He thinks he's never wrong!
2. He snores
Endearing
1. Loving/kind
2. Generous to the end
amelica2
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Happywanderer
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Reged: 24/10/2007
Posts: 253
Loc: UK
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Annoying
1. Sooooooo opinionated - sometimes can't see both sides of the coin
2. Intolerant - gets angry far too easily 
Endearing
1. Can be a real softie & cries without shame at sad stories
2. Loves me unconditionally 
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lizzietinribs
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Reged: 18/08/2008
Posts: 888
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Annoying
1. Goes outside in the garden in the rain in his slippers
2. Drinking makes him childish in the extreme
Endearing
1. Can still make me howl with laughter after 20 odd years
2. Another big softie - eyes water very easily at anything sad
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Lizzie xx
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kate1
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Reged: 18/08/2008
Posts: 2258
Loc: Leicestershire
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Endearing:
1) Beautiful Scottish accent...4 yrs on I could still listen to him read the phone book!
2)His love for me, and the way he knows how to love.
Irritating:
1) Sometimes you can't get a word in when he's off on a subject..tells you too much detail!
2) He gives the dog complicated explanations and expects him to understand! I am always saying that the dog only understands about five instructions!
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Barney
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Reged: 01/04/2008
Posts: 967
Loc: Northumberland
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Annoying
Asks the same question several times even tho' I answered first time asked.
Tendency to be intolerant.
Endearing
Brings me tea in bed most mornings
Not frightened to cry for happiness/sadness
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"Peace cannot be kept by force. It can only be achieved by understanding." Einstein.
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Onceshy
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Reged: 10/08/2008
Posts: 232
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Annoying: Snores and leaves his stuff all over the house!
Endearing: He makes me laugh and he's not afraid to cry .
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Snowy1066
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Reged: 08/07/2008
Posts: 3264
Loc: Southeast
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Endearing: Loyal and generous, gentle and kind.
Annoying: Only two??????
States the blimming obvious.
Impatient.
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Loo
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Reged: 09/01/2008
Posts: 1051
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Doesn't annoy really because I have accepted him for the way he is.
He never raises his voice, even to the children, and I get tea in bed every morning too.
Loo
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....as in Looby Loo
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LadyEloise
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Reged: 07/07/2008
Posts: 55
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Annoying - he always thinks he's right about everything and he smokes.
Endearing - he made me breakfast in bed this morning and went out early to get the Sunday papers.
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k8tie
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Reged: 20/09/2008
Posts: 225
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annoying: is always right and also leaves smelly running kit lying around.
endearing: supreme confidence that everything will be ok and surprises me occasionally with treats,flowers,etc
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debenjane
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Reged: 11/01/2008
Posts: 585
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Annoying -
Snores after too much red wine
Can be intolerant of others faults( presumably because he thinks he has none himself )
Endearing -
Loves me for who I am
Is kind, generous and makes me laugh.
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Spanishlady
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Reged: 21/01/2008
Posts: 1704
Loc: Torrevieja Spain
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annoying
1. thinks he is the only person in the whole world that knows how to drive
2. he is a pesstimist
endering.
1.he is still my Sexy Frenchman after 35 years
2. he is kindness to a fault he will help everyone
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LadyGodiva
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Reged: 19/09/2006
Posts: 292
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thank you ladies you have made me feel better. I have just remember my OH too has a couple of good points though feeling rather grudging about acknowledging them right now
He never leaves the loo seat up
I often get breakfast in bed
when I was ill for a few months he put his heart and soul into caring for me
he is brilliant at laughing at himself and with me
Gosh suddenly he has got lots of good points how alarming!! or should I say how lucky I am really? hmm need to think about that one and melt a little more 
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beejay
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Reged: 10/01/2008
Posts: 164
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2 most annoying
He blows his nose really loudly-you can hear it miles away!!
He's cleverer than me(so wins any arguments).
2 most endearing
He brings me a cup of tea and the paper in bed every morning.
He is very kind hearted and always sees the best in people
We have been married umpteen years and recently he has had some health worries and that really makes you think and treasure what you have,even the annoying things !!
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wispa
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Reged: 16/01/2008
Posts: 1945
Loc: Suffolk,
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He has hundreds of annoying habits (of course I have none) but compared to my ex, none of them matter.
Endearing - he's just him. Big hunky chunky
..wispa
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amelica2
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Reged: 21/07/2008
Posts: 1210
Loc: Beds.
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There is a theme running here.....
MEN SNORE and always think they are right  , but
most are loving, gentle and kind ...aaaaaah bless.
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Mollymandy
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Reged: 01/08/2008
Posts: 770
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Yep snoring is the biggest gripe here too
Sneezes so loudly too
Good points too numerous, but is my rock, big, brave, chunky, and a big softy too.
Knowing I generally only have to ask for something, does tend to make me ask for little ... good psychology on his part! 
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