Maire,I applaud your OH,it took a lot of courage to find out what is available to him and that he too has listened not only to you but his D as well. I do hope that he does make that appointment and sticks by it. I am also impressed by the fact that he wants to apologies to his D and maybe that means he has accepted she is growing up,and must now treat her as a young lady,who deserves not only his love but his respect, however,respect is a two-way operation and one that will need to be worked at,and it certainly isn't an easy thing for a young girl to accomplish,without first looking at herself. Family troubles are never solved in an instance. Your D still has raging hormones,but with love and understand between you all,I truely believe that your marriage is strong enough to get through this.It won't be a walk in the park,but then that's life. I am so glad that you don't feel the need to just 'opt out'of your marriage,you are definitely the lynchpin in your family,however,there are going to be tough times ahead,and there will no doubt be tears,arguments but hopefully much laughter as your family transgress from Adults/Children to all of you being Adults. Good Luck to you all,at least you are trying to keep the family unit together. Well done.
-------------------- Annemari xx
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