KazA
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Reged: 05/06/2008
Posts: 15
Loc: Leeds/ Near airport
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you try counselling and then you may feel clearer about making a decision.\
Or get on with your own thing and lead seperate lives, let his OCD take over the house and you get out and enjoy yourself.
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Karen
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Michelle60
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Reged: 07/07/2008
Posts: 3
Loc: Liverpool
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Just wanted to update everyone and thank you for all the helpful advice and support you have been giving me...
I went to my GP and she has suggested I need some antidepressants to help me through this bad time; and also HRT - which I didn't want to take in the past - but will give it a go. OH and I also have had long talks and it really has helped. So thank you all - for your support. It is so good to know there is someone just round the corner to give different suggestions in times of need. I hope I can be there for one of you in the future.
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OzzieKez
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Reged: 21/06/2008
Posts: 1897
Loc: Queensland, Australia
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Great news Michelle. Hope things continue to improve, this could be a whole new phase for you (& your marriage).
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Erica
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Reged: 09/04/2007
Posts: 16
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Take one day at a time. Time is a great healer and your H will get used to being retired and will find things to do it takes time to adjust. The black hole you feel your in at the moment will fade. Positive thinking works.
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green_eyes
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Reged: 07/02/2008
Posts: 61
Loc: near london
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GO GO GO GO!!!! i left my husband after 35years, i was unhappy, arguing, shouting and then weeks of silence Never ate together, slept together thats about it.wish i left years ago. i am now going through my divorce which is horrid, but i am so very much happier. Your only here once, you must both be very unhappy so get out now.
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scootergran
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Reged: 10/07/2008
Posts: 10
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Hi there..welcome I am new here myself..but can understand some of the problems you have at the moment, I think that you are of course very sad at the moment and trying to cope with your bereavment.but it sounds like you were very sad before this happend, my instincts would be to try and make a new life for yourself, perhaps not right this minute as you have other issues to deal with, I myself have had the silent treatment/the sulking/the going off to bed for days/the silent meals etc etc..and if I had my time again I would have left long ago, we only have one life, don't waste any more years of YOUR LIFE!! because thats what it is it's yours!!! keep us informed and updated, thank goodnes for this site it's like having a bunch of little private margorie proops!! without havig to leave the house, and also it does make you realise that there are many out there with problems and like they say, "a problem shared is a problem halved" 
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