| LadyGodiva |
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| 27/09/2008 23:55 |
What are the 2 most annoying things about your OH and the 2 most endea
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Today is one of those days when I wonder why I bothered - do you know the ones?
The most annoying 2 things about my OH are that I think he is domestically terminally lazy (although I accept of course that this might just be my perception) and that the slightest inconvenience especially if it involves the slightest signs of minor illness are treated like a life changing crisis.
2 endearing things I can't think of right now so I may have to come back to you on that one. I am sure they will come back to me after a nights sleep and a sunny morning.
Come on girls please let me know I am not alone in having the only non perfect OH
| Jane_2009 |
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| 28/09/2008 00:47 |
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Annoying: snores and leaves the loo seat up!
Endearing: generous and kind.
But some days I can't bear the sight of him, so I know what you mean!
| Foxie |
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| 28/09/2008 06:20 |
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Annoying - doesn't automatically replace the toilet roll and snores when he has too much to drink
Endearing - Always, always goes the extra mile to make me happy and still thinks I look the same as when we met (I was 16 years old then!!)
| amelica2 |
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| 28/09/2008 09:08 |
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Annoying
1. He thinks he's never wrong!
2. He snores
Endearing
1. Loving/kind
2. Generous to the end
amelica2
| Happywanderer |
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| 28/09/2008 09:38 |
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Annoying
1. Sooooooo opinionated - sometimes can't see both sides of the coin
2. Intolerant - gets angry far too easily
Endearing
1. Can be a real softie & cries without shame at sad stories
2. Loves me unconditionally
| lizzietinribs |
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| 28/09/2008 09:57 |
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Annoying
1. Goes outside in the garden in the rain in his slippers
2. Drinking makes him childish in the extreme
Endearing
1. Can still make me howl with laughter after 20 odd years
2. Another big softie - eyes water very easily at anything sad
| kate1 |
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| 28/09/2008 09:59 |
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Endearing:
1) Beautiful Scottish accent...4 yrs on I could still listen to him read the phone book!
2)His love for me, and the way he knows how to love.
Irritating:
1) Sometimes you can't get a word in when he's off on a subject..tells you too much detail!
2) He gives the dog complicated explanations and expects him to understand! I am always saying that the dog only understands about five instructions!
| Barney |
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| 28/09/2008 10:07 |
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Annoying
Asks the same question several times even tho' I answered first time asked.
Tendency to be intolerant.
Endearing
Brings me tea in bed most mornings
Not frightened to cry for happiness/sadness
| Onceshy |
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| 28/09/2008 10:10 |
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Annoying: Snores and leaves his stuff all over the house!
Endearing: He makes me laugh and he's not afraid to cry .
| Snowy1066 |
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| 28/09/2008 11:18 |
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Endearing: Loyal and generous, gentle and kind.
Annoying: Only two??????
States the blimming obvious.
Impatient.
| Loo |
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| 28/09/2008 11:24 |
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Doesn't annoy really because I have accepted him for the way he is.
He never raises his voice, even to the children, and I get tea in bed every morning too.
Loo
| LadyEloise |
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| 28/09/2008 12:15 |
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Annoying - he always thinks he's right about everything and he smokes.
Endearing - he made me breakfast in bed this morning and went out early to get the Sunday papers.
| k8tie |
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| 28/09/2008 12:20 |
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annoying: is always right and also leaves smelly running kit lying around.
endearing: supreme confidence that everything will be ok and surprises me occasionally with treats,flowers,etc
| debenjane |
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| 28/09/2008 12:23 |
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Annoying -
Snores after too much red wine
Can be intolerant of others faults( presumably because he thinks he has none himself )
Endearing -
Loves me for who I am
Is kind, generous and makes me laugh.
| Spanishlady |
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| 28/09/2008 12:43 |
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annoying
1. thinks he is the only person in the whole world that knows how to drive
2. he is a pesstimist
endering.
1.he is still my Sexy Frenchman after 35 years
2. he is kindness to a fault he will help everyone
| LadyGodiva |
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| 28/09/2008 14:31 |
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thank you ladies you have made me feel better. I have just remember my OH too has a couple of good points though feeling rather grudging about acknowledging them right now
He never leaves the loo seat up
I often get breakfast in bed
when I was ill for a few months he put his heart and soul into caring for me
he is brilliant at laughing at himself and with me
Gosh suddenly he has got lots of good points how alarming!! or should I say how lucky I am really? hmm need to think about that one and melt a little more
| beejay |
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| 28/09/2008 17:22 |
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2 most annoying
He blows his nose really loudly-you can hear it miles away!!
He's cleverer than me(so wins any arguments).
2 most endearing
He brings me a cup of tea and the paper in bed every morning.
He is very kind hearted and always sees the best in people
We have been married umpteen years and recently he has had some health worries and that really makes you think and treasure what you have,even the annoying things !!
| wispa |
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| 28/09/2008 20:07 |
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He has hundreds of annoying habits (of course I have none) but compared to my ex, none of them matter.
Endearing - he's just him. Big hunky chunky
..wispa
| amelica2 |
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| 28/09/2008 21:29 |
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There is a theme running here.....
MEN SNORE and always think they are right
, butmost are loving, gentle and kind
...aaaaaah bless.
| Mollymandy |
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| 29/09/2008 09:48 |
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Yep snoring is the biggest gripe here too
Sneezes so loudly too
Good points too numerous, but is my rock, big, brave, chunky, and a big softy too.
Knowing I generally only have to ask for something, does tend to make me ask for little ... good psychology on his part!
| MrsDing |
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| 29/09/2008 12:59 |
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Annoying
He sniffs (sorry, mate, I KNOW you've got medical problems with your nose but it really does put me off my brekkie some days!)
He's the only person in the world who gets tired
Endearing
He's always loving and kind ..... to the cats!!
He's the coolest old rock-dude in town
| ChrissiFi |
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| 29/09/2008 13:19 |
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Annoying
Takes for ever to get around to telling me what's been worrying/upsetting him and in the mean time I'm supposed to act as though everything is normal (carefully avoiding anything that may annoy him)
He's always right
Endearing
He will never refuse to help anyone (maybe this ought to also be in most annoying!)
He's a real softie but only I get to see that side of him
| Lacey |
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| 30/09/2008 22:28 |
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Most annoying? The first one is gross so read betwen your fingers, he pees straight down into the loo water instead of aiming round the sides - the noise sounds like niagra falls and can be heard all over the house.
The second one, well,erm, oh yes that one, and that,and all those, gosh I'd forgotten that one,
But the SULKING beats the lot.
Most endearing? come back to me on a good day, can't thing of a single one right now!
| BC41 |
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| 11/10/2008 17:48 |
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Ooh -
annoying:
he has a Jekyll and Hyde temperament when he's been on the lash.
He goes on the lash far, far, far too much.
He has a very short fuse.
When I'm trying to talk to him he talks to the cat. Sometimes he's a complete *rse.
Endearing:
He'll make me a cup of tea when I'm on the computer.
He's a vg cook.
I know that when he's been drinking he only has about 10 minutes of blathering before he falls asleep.