Hi Asparagus - that's 2 of us! You're the first reply I've seen from someone who would like a supper club in Chichester. Shall we see if we can get a few more over next few weeks then PM each other?
By the way - I don't think 51 a bit old! I'm 45, but have many friends in their 50s and my OH will be 50 this year (but he does think he's old!). Aren't the 50s the new 40s anyway!