Hi Popcorn,You will be in the right group(not because you're dim!) but when we met up on our first meeting we all agreed that meeting others was much more important than food for us.
But we were thinking for our next meeting that we would perhaps look for something like a pub with food.June did suggest a pub in West Parley,Can't remember the name at present and If we have no other suggestions I would think that would be fine.We can always think of other places so that we have a list together when we meet again.

Also ,thanks ladies for the thank you's.I appreciate it.It was such a relief to me when we finally managed to meet up.I'm sure it will be much easier in the future now that we can plan together each time we meet up.