I think it is the "wholeness" of marriage that matters ....wether or not that is expressed in a physical way or not ....i do not think your marriage ...which has stood the test of time is less strong because you are celibate....it is a private and personal matter and if you and your OH have a good strong marriage without sex that is your choice. No one can say it is less strong....each to his own ....and marriages ..like people ...are all different ...not better just different!

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