Ditch the baggy grey and flats immediately, do you hear! Of course you can wear pretty things and heels. Okay, maybe not mini skirts, even if you have the legs, the knees will give you away! Nothing wrong with shorts if you can wear them, just be sensible about the length. Caps are very sensible, unless it is me, who looks a complete wally in them! I think the older we get the more important it is to look good.