I fear I have missed the window of opportunity here!

I am now 50 and look - I think - the best I have for years and years - due to weight loss, improved fitness and lack of stress. We moved to the Ribble Valley and I went p/t.

I now want to wear pretty things instead of hiding in baggy grey and black and wear heels instead of sensible flats. I am off on holiday and want to take shorts and fun caps to wear. Can I ? Should I?

Well , actually I will - but how far can I go - what exactly will cause me to step over the boundary into mutton land?

Advice please!

Janmac ( baa)