Oh Anne, how could people think they are complimenting someone when they put it like that?
I was sitting with a few neighbours a few years ago having a coffee,and we were talking about dieting,one lovely neighbour said to me, "Oh you're fine, you always looks lovely", to which another neighbour replied, "Don't be silly look at the size of her legs"!! How I wished I had had Foxies sister's line ready to use then!